Angry Chika!
First of all, I’d like to thank [ Jacqui ] for reminding me of the stashed M&Ms in my room – although I try to avoid sweets, seems like today is the worst day ever to have any kind of “sugar” in front of me – 3 scoops of ice cream + fruits, Kitkat & the previously mentioned – maskhara!
Ok, nothing specific today, I have been having those nasty back cramps & my eyes are heavy bas I managed to drag myself out of the house for a mini reunion with this girl who I used to go to school with…. Life’s sooo funny! You know when people leave a bad feeling inside about yourself, making you feel like crap & then you bump into them to know that your life is on the right track… am not being mean or atshammat bas life is a roller coaster, one day your up then you fall down soooo fast.. maskhara too!
This girl is a couple of months younger than me; she got married 3 years ago to turn into a divorcee recently, what a sad situation… where one cannot find words to make this person feel better because on one hand, you don’t know the details – real details – of this marriage & on the other, you know that this person went willingly into this marriage, so it was kinda hard…
I just want to understand one thing, GUYS! When you want to propose to a girl for marriage, what do you have in mind! Ok, there are some personal preferences & things you look into for choosing your future spouse bas you dimwit, if the girl is NOTHING like what you have in mind, why do you take the risk! Why go into this & end it up in a bad way… I don’t understand it! Is the institution of marriage so shallow now a days! Is it a matter of just getting married for “bed”! money! WHAT! Seriously, it’s sooo depressing o beysed nafs elwa7ed! Also maskhara! When you sit there listening to hurting details of a person who lost her life … her job… a reputation besides the emotional distress… so sad when people deceit one another, when they take things for granted… we humans are funny…
I wish I was a cat! Khaaaakh!
September 18th, 2007 at
Any guys out there willing to give an answer??
September 18th, 2007 at
This is one of the mysterious Q’s in life, because the question has a different answer, every time you ask it.
There for the question has no answer.
September 18th, 2007 at
Marriage institution is shallow ? you gotta be kidding ! just because 5 or 10 % of them get divorced doesn’t mean that the whole worlds gone crazy !
Just A tip , When you are married learn to ‘kindly adjust ‘ [ other than abuse / adultry ] , And as a preacution get to know the person first , like a year or so ! then get married … Then its all on Gods will !
September 18th, 2007 at
I don’t speak for all the guys. I’d choose to do it for the relationship, the experience of being and living with them. It includes everything of course; doing things together, having fun together, living together, and loving each other. I learned that the only marriage I’m ever going to consider will be love marriage too. So good luck to me with that, lol!