Sep
25
2007
One sentence, two mixed reactions!
“You just take this off (Hejab) & I’ll build you a house & pave the road to it with roses”
Question:
1. Flattered !
OR
2. Offended !
[ UPDATE ]: Yes I guess we women get emotional so fast :P
Let me explain, dude is a FRIEND only, who thinks that Hejab hides my “beauty” – 7amdellah wel shokr! As if I’m THAT pretty a9lan! Elshab a7wal…
Lots of people think, why did you put it on, you should have waited after you got married or had kids.. hejab covers your hair & takes away from your beauty as a woman! Ai 7aga – Ai shai – eshda3wa!!! = Whatever…
September 25th, 2007 at
#2
etha sij,,,,esh’hal maynon???
September 25th, 2007 at
What are you waiting for?
Actually you can take it which ever
way you want to.
September 25th, 2007 at
Offended! u never know, the house could be a little shack and the roses are filled with thorns… keep the 7jab and move on :p
September 25th, 2007 at
well offended, mo lana il 7jab thing, but lana his “love” is conditional
September 25th, 2007 at
Offended Offended Offended
September 25th, 2007 at
huh.. why would a guy want a girl to take off hijab? if he wanted her in the first place then he should have accepted her the way she is and not CHANGE for him! So hypocritical of MALES! Meh!
September 25th, 2007 at
Offended of course! Seems like he thinks he can get what he wants by bribing .. This for that, it’s not acceptable!
September 25th, 2007 at
is this about a guy????? jerk jerk jerk jerk jerk jerk
so he thinks meterial stuff can stand up to your faith and dignity??? jerk jerk jerk
September 25th, 2007 at
lol
like my friend always say
women act with emotion
September 25th, 2007 at
Definitely offended! Slap the moron! He should respect you and whatever your committing to, and accept you the way your are. Hiajb or no hijab, it’s the person themselves. Shallow idiot.
September 25th, 2007 at
I was staying away cause of all the female anger in here, I don’t like to get mixed into it. The update, however, made quite a few things clear. True, I agree that hair is a sign of beauty. This doesn’t mean hijab removes this beauty. Besides, women who wear hijab, in general (and for the right reasons), do not boast their beauty in that way.
September 25th, 2007 at
I wear my 7ejab and will not take it off
September 25th, 2007 at
SHUT UP!
You know why.
;p–
you can moderate it if you want .
September 25th, 2007 at
Offended!!!!
September 25th, 2007 at
Oh, Chikapappi, guys say stupid things. Cut him some slack, blow it off. His asking doesn’t mean your removing, does it? Getting offended gives it too much importance. Treat him like a small thing.
September 25th, 2007 at
I agree with princess and N.
September 25th, 2007 at
just leaving a trace ……… without a comment
September 25th, 2007 at
Sorry but he’s stupid even if his words were meant for compliment. Hijab doesn’t take much of women’s beauti. Some poeple even see it as a turn-on.
September 25th, 2007 at
1- As a husband, he can see you without it.
2- Marriage is a contract not a purchase receipt.
3- Religious decisions can only be made by yourself because you will be held responsible for the consequences.
September 25th, 2007 at
Alslam Alikom,
I just wanted to say this is a great topic, and this is a great blog as well. keep it up sister :)
_R
September 25th, 2007 at
Offended. *slap*. I wonder how these men will feel when they have daughters, will do they right thing (hijab & other things) or leave them to flaunt their beauty for other men.
September 25th, 2007 at
LoL Thanks for the update. we got so angry dear, don’t do that again lol!
See, I wear Hijab and I totally believe in it but I do believe it does hide the beauty. But, Only the appearance not your personality and all that. I won’t be able to sleep in peace if I wasn’t wearing it.
P.s to el Mo7ajjabat: Does anyone feel like they don’t like how they look in it? Don’t get me wrong, I WANT to wear it and Totally believe in it but I don’t like how I look in it, I don’t know why?! I see others they look good in it and it looks neat but me I feel it doesn’t look ok. I think I don’t know HOW to wear it lol.. Never mind just a thought!
September 25th, 2007 at
:P Shayooma – I am now replying to ALL the comments :) so HOLD!
September 25th, 2007 at
Offended.. if he really cared then he would want u in a hijab so you wont take other mens “athaam” when they see u.. hijab is just that, its a hijab, ya7jeb el beauty.
Maybe he meant ina ur so gorgeous WITH the hijab, so without hijab u would be even more gorgeous.. many other comments said what i wanted to say hehe :)
September 25th, 2007 at
Ok, first let me remind you that the guy’s a friend so LOVE is out of this issue! Bas I gotta tell you, I love how women stick with & for each other..
LOVE YOU GIRLS! :*
- Outkastya: La2 he’s not crazy some men prefer to have non methajba wives, anyways he’s only a friend so I DON’T CARE :)
- Blue, you think ;) Next for hejab is YOU girl !! WOHOO!
-Swair, I won’t take it off, even if I get the man of my dreams o mo a house he offers, everything in the world I won’t
- Princess, I WONT bas I wouldn’t wear 3abaya either :P
-Layool, :* you can relax now
- RAG AKA Mona: Tell me about it! I wouldn’t be in such a situation in the first place o change my whole identity for a guy never again!
- Shayouma: he doesn’t want anything o I ain’t no half baked cookie hun ;)
- Asoom :) I can’t judge him since we are friends only bas he doesn’t fit my “husband” category if he thinks like that a9lan
- Kuwaitizen LOL I know!! They got all pissed off Don’t you love us! I love these girls
- Amethyst I already gave him a piece of my mind on that so don’t worry sweetie – 3o2balek (hejab I mean) :P
- N. It’s good that you stayed out till the girls were done :) – I love your reply, Hejab is not about showing anything be3aks its about being modest o covering up bas again, I like dressing up & being covered at the same time balance is the key..
- PURG! LOLLL!!! You wear it nice too, love your style & you gotta teach me how you do it :P
- Blue, “elerd fe 3een ommoh ghazal” Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder ;) SHOKRAN
- AMU WOW! Your stand with the females is appreciated :)
- Intlspatr, I know, that’s what I am doing in general with things that upset me, well trying at least :$ I love how you know so much about Islam & your efforts to understand
- Pearls, I know how you think babe :)
- Grey: Marking territory policy ! Nice!
- Macaholic, I know why you say that , the turn on thing it’s because of the bad image & impact some of these girls leave on people Beauty is relevant some like it hidden like a treasure while others wanna show it off:)
- 3baid: you summed it up in a good way, but no marriage involved here :) o I will never marry someone who doesn’t accept me for what I am & respects me.
- Redan, thanks Brother keep droppin’ by :)
- Vix. Some, I won’t say majority don’t even give a rat’s ass about what’s happening in their households denya kharbana yakhtchiiii!
September 25th, 2007 at
- Yara , Yeah, that’s what the poor guy wanted to say but since:
1. I don’t think am pretty so I think that’s BS
2. I didn’t wanna say that so people won’t think am “marketing or displaying” myself…
Bas he ain’t my type wala marriage material wala thing… Friendos!
September 25th, 2007 at
it’s none of his business how you choose to dress. I think you should tell him off and tell him that there are some lines that he just cant cross. totally none of his business.
September 25th, 2007 at
the hijab is matter that should be left to the lady herself to decide, men should never argue with it, if they don’t like it then it’s their problem!
yes better late than never ;p shrayech bel new template?
September 25th, 2007 at
I like it better than the old one :) you ok now ! :P
September 25th, 2007 at
Tell him to keep the house and the roses and Ensha-Allah you will have a mansion in El Janna with a whole garden full of roses and ponds … where will you live in forever Ensha-Allah …
I agree with princess’s comment ..
^_^ .. Always be proud.
P.S.: Says who, that you are not beautiful??!! I bet you are. A person with this sense of humor and amazing character is genuinly beautiful inside and outside …
September 26th, 2007 at
ambeeeeh just tell him when God is going to ask me why i took off my hijab he must replay
ambeeeeeh heheh tra now adays mashalah el mt7ajbaat 9ayreen zooga ( bas fe majmoo3a el 9ra7aa efashloon heheh )
and i am sure entaay 7lwaaaa
September 26th, 2007 at
I know… I see them o an2eref bas what to do.. we just watch.. 3eoonek el7elwa ya 3aroosa… ba6lob 6alab
PLSSSSSSSS… ghayree el comments setting so I can comment on your blog – make it for everyone o keep moderation if you want :)
That’s y i haven’t been able to post anything on your blog dear
September 26th, 2007 at
It does conceal the person’s beauty, that’s the whole point of it no?
September 27th, 2007 at
First, I do think that hijab kinda takes away the beauty because hair is extremely beautiful. oo i see girls when they take it off i don’t recognize them and they’re so much prettier.
BUT. I would be offended, bcz if someone wants to do this for me he would do it nomatter what i’m wearing (or not wearing)
September 27th, 2007 at
- Vagabond, no mo shar6.. some girls look much more decent & appealing bel 7jab and the whole point if heja in Islam is covering women up to be modest & to give her much more respect in society…
- Enigma, you are 2 two on my “who’s gotta tet7ajjab soon list” :P
September 28th, 2007 at
OFFENDED
December 22nd, 2007 at
he shouldnt tell you what to do or give you a stupid ultimatum like that. bes i dont believe in the 7ijab, my interpritation has nothing to do with beauty, i just think that if you conceal things from people or tell guys (in general) you cant see this, cant have this.. it only makes them more desperate to get it (note: 3agad in malls). Also i think those kinds of borders and boundaries between people just deepen divides in society. for example, look at bali, where women walk around topless and no one looks, no one cares cause thats the way God created them! and everyone respects each other and they are not a materialistic society. i am not saying go topless that goes against the foundations the arab culture- CULTURE- was built on but i think it would be best if we adopted a more respectful and open-minded, unmaterialistic mindset.
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