Random questions with an end point…
Let’s do this first, a conversation between me & this “Rambo”
Rambo: Enti dafsha (aggressive)
Me: Yeah I know, I told you before :)
Rambo: You’re too aggressive
Me: I have to! To keep some people away…
Here’s how I look at it (& this confuses me!), if a girl’s all mushy & “7aleema” like, she’s a tart! If she “butches” up then she’s a “les- b- friends”!
There has to be a comfort area for the girl, I’ve stated that many times before, when people see me, they think am this 22 years old “teenager” who they can “tag along” & have “fun” with so I occasionally show some claws & that’s when they get pissed off & give me shit!! I don’t give a rat’s ass to be honest! Let people think whatever they want! Hey, you think shit of me, I do the same! What goes around comes around & Karma bites in the behind (am trying to be civil here)
So that got me thinking (thanks for the inspiration), of the following questions. Let’s see what goes inside these heads of yours people!
Question 1 What makes a female? I mean, when would you call a girl a “female”? Is it the way she acts – is it her shyness? Is it the way she acts “in public” – I sure hell have seen some “lovely” ladies who behind closed doors turn into utter monsters! Freaky! I mean reaaaaaly bad as in BAD BAD
Question 2 What makes you go for a girl? In Islam it’s clear; Basic factors to choose your future wife, including Religion, manners, financial status & her a9l (family roots), bas for some weird reason now a days, guys seem to only marry those “witches”! Not all girls are bad of course but it’s a general observation which I don’t wanna stereotype – bad girls get it all! WHY?
Question 3 I was watching Bab El 7ara on MBC & the women always refer to their husbands as “Ebn 3ammi” (my cousin) !!! I still don’t understand why but that’s not my point; These women are so intimidated by their “cousins” that they act like slaves to them – now, I ain’t a rebel bas this won’t work for us during this time… there’s no “Si Sayyed” to make a wife rub his feet unless she wants to of course & I don’t mind doing that in the future bas the same exact women in the TV series, when they are away from their men, are strong – opinionated- nasty sometimes – meaning, they do have personalities! So why the fakeness! Just to please the man!? Huh! Men, do you wanna have wives like that or would you rather have a balanced woman who is mentally equal to you? One whom you can converse with all night long on any and everything is the world? I want that…
Question 4 Why is it that men accept & validate things for themselves NON THE LESS – if the sister or one of the females in the family does it, it’s taboo?! Discrimination? Probably that!
Question 5 The last question addresses you girls: Why do you think you have to go so far just to please the guy!? Even if sometimes he just doesn’t appreciate whatever you do!? Doesn’t that sound like you lack self confidence & this is the only way you know how to make up to that ?! Do not tell me love! Love is not about humiliation! It’s about RESPECT!
October 9th, 2007 at
There never was, It’s a myth!
But trust me, any guy would die for a single woman to treat him like that! From her heart!
Or for her to say, “Ya 3ain Aboy” … Wleeeeeeeeeeeee
October 9th, 2007 at
I’ll start from bottom!
5, because at this point you function with emotions not brains
but your only allowed to do that once.
4, I asked my cousin once, he had no answer.
actually he answered but what i heard was “Agooo” WHAT EVER!”
3, Lol, i thought it means “7abeebi” in syrian.?!
2, mostly will tell you “shakil”
1, body parts? Ovary?
October 9th, 2007 at
Just be who you are; the guy who’s meant for you will love you just as you are. As for guys’ tastes, i9ara7a women in this country are scary. In some cases the guy has no clue she’s a witch, she plots and nails him down and he’s blinded by it- witch or not witch once he’s hooked he’s hooked. But you wouldn’t want a guy like that.
No matter how many questions you ask chika it will not make any difference. It’s not statistics and you’ll never shed light on the answer hundreds of people asked of “what men really want & what women want”. When it’s fate, it happens whether it’s blue, gray or yellow. If that makes any sense to you.
Allah yarzigich ya rab ili tabeena wili fee 5air lich o yas3idich
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October 9th, 2007 at
This post is too confusing, I have no clue what it means.
October 9th, 2007 at
i completely agree with you. now my answers:
1 – her shyness. bs mo eli wayed nafs 7aleema, hathee 3ad kaaf 3la wayeha! (6) w the way she dresses. ya3ni cute-style.
2 – inah she respects herself before she respects me. and ma a7eb il girl eli itsheel ib 5a6erha wayed, eli kil shay itsajlah, “enta sadaytah ib wayhi”, “enta gelt chethe!”
3 – i’d rather have a balanced woman who is mentally equal to me. i copy/pasted your sentence!! ma a7eb il woman eli tafri’6 rayha 3alay. ok she can say it, bs “do it” no way etha mo 3ajebni.
4 – la2ena kila nesma3 “il rayal shayil 3aibah” i know ana wayed dashayt ib maw’6oo3 thani. bs still my point, inah il rayal kila he can wil woman 7aram 3alaiha, la2ena may9er taksereen kelmiti w ana rayal il bait blah blah.
5 – i agree with you. she thinks she steps on her dignity and tries the impossible just to please him. a5er shay he’ll do whatever he wants to her wayed lame, because he knows inah she’ll get back to him. so min awal shay lazem it7e6 il dignity before kil shay. because if she respects herself, he’ll respect her. mla7’6a i answered kil il questions ma3ana feeh questions bs 7ag guys, w others bas 7ag girls? well i mentioned ib one of your post lesh i’m doing this. hehe….
October 9th, 2007 at
Question 1 What makes a female? When she knows how to fulfill her promises & when she is mature to take her decisions!!
Question 2 What makes you go for a girl?
Unless my mom really wants to see her grand children I am not going for one now….
Question 3: ???? I am still confused about this one!!!
Question 4: I have always been equal with my sisters, in fact I was very much open minded for any situation with my sisters….
Question 5: I think its not just the girls..its guys too
Cheers!!
October 9th, 2007 at
I used to always fight for women, and tell em to stand up for themselves, it was useless!! So now I’m going to fight for animals’ rights instead, at least they want to be saved, women just trap themselves in horrible lives, which really ticks me off
October 9th, 2007 at
Nice post , i dont want to answer them [exept no 4] because of my buffallo IQ , just a info … did you know back in the very olden days Indian women used to wash husbands feet and drink that water as a sign of obedience ? Then kill themselves on thier husbands funeral pyre ?
Qno 4 : Men are morons , so they get away with what they want but since they are morons they can fall in love but they cant allow their sisters to fall in love , thats against their moronity ..
October 9th, 2007 at
I’ve always been single. I never had an official relationship for personal reasons. But you;re right, love is about respect. If someone doesn’t love/appreciate you, then what’s the point of being with them? There’s no point in a one-sided relationship. Relationships are about two people working together to advance something and respecting each other while they are at it. I hope that makes sense.
October 9th, 2007 at
Chikapappi, you’re thinking too hard. I’m going to let you answer your own questions:
1- What makes a female? Close your eyes. Picture Princess Diana in front of you. What makes her feminine? Is it her dress? Is it the way she sits? Her accent perhaps? You tell me.
2- What makes you go for a girl? If you were to pick out a house to live in, which type would it be? Would you pick the biggest one? The best-looking one? The one near a particular place? Or does it depend on a combination of things? Is it necessary to match all your specific preferences?
3- Do you wanna have wives like? You already answered this. Would you want a man to want you to be a wife like that?
4- Discrimination? Would you mind if your daughter did? No? You’ll have to wait until you’re a parent to find out :P
5- Why do you think you have to go so far just to please the guy!? In a competitive world, wouldn’t it be nice to have an advantage? XD
October 9th, 2007 at
Answer 1: Feminine but strong. Is loved AND respected.
Answer 2: jawab 3abee6: i don’t go for girls :p
Answer 3: I HATE that “Si Sayeed” attitude! Sure, the man should have his “haiiba” in front his woman, but NOT scare her shitless as a sign of respect! There’s equality oo mo kilmat el rayal ihya ili DAYMAN tamshee..
Answer 4: That’s just pure ASS.. men are dumb 70% of the time..
Answer 5: Ewaloon zain.. I might like to look hot for me and maybe to catch some appreciative looks (while being dressed conservatively, not slutty or overtly eye-catching), but that doesn’t mean it’s for them 24/7… And it’s painful to “act” a certain personality when your real personality is hidden just for a guy.. why should i go through that pain and think that it’s going to last? itha yabeeni, he takes me as i am, i’m not changing for anyone..
October 10th, 2007 at
- Qwaider: “Ya 3yoon albi” mabtemshi!? :P LOL! MEN- easily manipulated by words!
I tell you, maybe the character is a myth bas in real life, there are some demented men who take over this role… poor women!
- Bello: This ebn 3ammy thing is still a mystery thing to me! I just wanna know why the cousin!? Yeah, “OVARY” LOL!
- Sushiii: Love your replies girl :) YOU TOO! YA RAB! La2 actually, you first :P
- Purg: I know you were, because you were fasting! :P
- Perfectionist: yalla ya rab… enshallah you get married before the end of this year :P- bas 7aleema shy!!! La2 la2 esma7li!
- AMU: Why are you confused? I like the “open minded” answer! Cheers!
- Elijah: LOL! La2 girl! Don’t give up!!! DON’T! The sisters out there need us! *shakes your head*
- Grey: LOL! You make me laugh every time :) Well, Yeah in India they do that bas that’s too much! I mean, khalas the man’s dead! Bye! Stay single bas don’t go to hell after him! Not all men are morons bas that’s for admitting that :P
- Amethyst: I suggest you stay single till the right decent person comes along girl ..
- 3baid:
1. Princess Diana! Urggh… allah yer7amha bas that’s how most princess act & in real , we cannot act like that – “all the time”.
2. Woman = house!? :P Ok, I’d pick what suits my “budget” – comfortable for me & full of light :)
3. La2 akeed – unless he likes to be bossed around & insulted all day :)
4. Actually, I’ll be a close friend to my daughter & keep her under my supervision…
5. LOL at the last answer – competition huh! MEN
- Swair: LOL girl :) *pats on the shoulder* – take it easy, what to do?! We have to live with “this” :P
October 10th, 2007 at
1. acting like one? lol
4. am not married et fa i dont know how to answer haYdaa il question =/
October 10th, 2007 at
nice post!
1. Hmm, I think what makes a female is just be herself, in public as she is at home. I HATE the fakeness, when someone acts to please or attract people. I think you just be yourself.
2. hmm, that is for the men lol.
3. That is what I was saying in number one, just be you, those women I don’ know what makes then act like this, but like you said, yeah to please the man.
4. That I also want to know! It’s like when a man does something 7aram, they are like it’s worse if it’s a girl doing it. BUT to Allah 7aram is 7aram, he won’t excuse the man! Why does the society?
5. I do admit I lack confience but that’s me with everyone I love. I know it’s pathetic. Check the new post on my blog. It’s a coincidence lol but it’s kind of related to this question somehow!
October 10th, 2007 at
Shayouma: you me “same same” yaaaar :)
October 11th, 2007 at
LoL @ Same same ;)