No more marriage shit! Happy?!
Ok, one response to all you boys out there:
Ok… now we move from that crap to a more serious thing, friendship:
I’ve had many friends throughout my life – some good, others very bad & the remaining just need to be burnt up alive! Seriously – those “friends” who end up your worst enemies & you find that out too late… that sux
Friends who pretend they like you then stab you behind in the back at every single chance they get! Problem is when you are a person like me, dumb trusting is when it hurts the most… I’ve cried so many times thinking it was my fault when really, they are the way they are! It’s in their blood being assholes.. so pathetic…
How much do you trust your friends? Is it really that safe to let someone in your life? Share it all? Do you consider those “friends” as ticking bombs? Waiting to explode & hurt you along?
This shit is scary… I have in mind “ keep your friends close but your enemies closer”…
I have a coupla people that I talk to, what puzzles me is that they aren’t clear towards me; one minute they love me the second, I find out they are gossiping with other assholes about me!? WHY!????????
What would you do? Completely ignore & move on? Go talk to them & tell them what’s bugging you? Which one sounds right?
October 15th, 2007 at
Chika chika chikaaa……….. Isn’t it interesting a9lan?
I say be honest if they matter….. I mean if it’s bugging you then
Hell, go tell them if its indifference you feel then hell with it.
The thing about trust,
See it’s a great think being able to trust everyone you meet not everyone can do that
But you have to be smart about it.
There’s the dumb trust and the smart trust.
You have to figure that out.
October 15th, 2007 at
The friends you can trust aren’t always the most fun, glamorous people. the friends you can trust are the ones who have unglamourous traits like discretion, good judgement, loyalty, and a sincere interest in your well being.
People you LIKE can be anyone, and you can have fun with them, but people can you trust are like gems – treasure them and keep them locked in your own heart. ;-)
October 15th, 2007 at
Tell me about it!! I practically suffered a classical case of a friend turning worst enemy and I still don’t even know why (other than they’re really, really mental)
Some people are not even worth knowing. You know, they exist, but that’s also a waste of space. You do good things to them, and they make you regret even spitting in their direction
I hear you girl…
For those, you don’t keep them close in anyway, they really are a waste!
October 15th, 2007 at
For god’s sake, stop the damn music on your blog! Give me a chance NOT to have your taste of music shoved down my throat! Make it optional. Like, not play automatically! I beg you!
October 15th, 2007 at
people disappoint us all the time.
to find a trustworthy person is hard! i cut those idiots completely out of my life.
ps. i don’t like your video :)
October 15th, 2007 at
Even people change.. dawam el 7al mo7al.. one day they are the best that could ever be… the next they change… I do have childhood friends who i’ve shared secrets with, they are still with me bs we’re not as close as we used to be, we drifted apart… we see eachother maybe once a month.. When i find a good friend and say to myself “Shes gonna be my new best friend” I find out something new about them, either they dont like me for who iam.. or they lie, or are 2 faced, ect. Its really hard to find good friends, i admire what you and blue have, i cant trust as easily as i used to.. I love making new friends and i have loads.. that one friend who you talk with a million times a day about everything and anything is what i miss having
October 15th, 2007 at
Avoid them if your sure they are talking behind your back.. smile o salmay as usual if you see them but la ” te7takain ” fehom.. just imagine u stuffed ur enemies into a small box.. locked it, threw away the key.. and threw the whole box into the deepest darkest ocean :)
October 15th, 2007 at
About the “friends” you’re talking about, it depends on how much you value your friendship with them and whether you think they’re going to be receptive to your concern. Sometimes it’s just not worth it and it’s better to be distant from people whose interactions with bother you whether it was their intention or not.
I’ve come to the sad realization that just because someone is your friend it doesn’t mean they fully trust you or you fully trust them, or that you can count on them to always be there, or that they don’t use you to a certain extent or that they don’t judge you. It’s just something I accept about people and I deal with on a person to person basis in best way that protects me and keeps me from getting hurt or let down without cutting off myself from everyone.
October 15th, 2007 at
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October 15th, 2007 at
Welcome! :/
October 15th, 2007 at
oh ! friends … I got back stabbed by a ‘best friend’ and after 10 years of that ill fated event we are still fighting to join the pieces of our lives …. When best friends back stabb you there is nothing worse than that … but i am cool now , i have many friends but i keep them out of my private life …. it works well !
October 15th, 2007 at
I’d say, the only reason they’re “back-stabbing” is because they’re not getting what they want. Sometimes friends become greedy, and in that case, they lose their friendship altogether.
October 15th, 2007 at
Oh Chikapappi! I loved that song :s
I don’t trust people and I’ll never do. and I’m happier that way!
October 15th, 2007 at
hmmm for me .. my moto is a secret isnt a secret if it is known by more than one …
ppl are misunderstanding how close they should be to ppl , it always frustrate me to hear that some one just met some other one yesterday and they are friends now :S amean what the hell
why the words mate , pal , or even colleague exists ! there should be steps .. and maaaaaaaaaany steps to verify friendships into trust worthy level .. and even after that the level of trust is subjective .. simply “u cant just plant tree today … and build tree house over it tomorrow ” Said By Sowhat :P
October 15th, 2007 at
There is no solid rules for friendship! Sometimes you know a friend since childhood and you just can’t trust that friend because he or she can’t keep their mouth shut! But you can trust a friend who you just met last year! As for me it depends on what I wanna tell them! Each friend has his domain so there is no 1 friend I can trust with everything!
And well friends come and go! I need not to worry when losing some :D
October 15th, 2007 at
It seems the past few days all I have been doing has been discussing friendships. In the end, how much you trust your friends is up to you. You may know some people for years and not trust them, while with others you know them for a couple of minutes and innately share everything with them. Life’s funny like that.
I think you should never reach a point where you don’t allow people into your life. What would be the point of living then?
October 15th, 2007 at
Hey chika…dont worry…just go and kick them like you say to me :P
October 15th, 2007 at
“ keep your friends close but your enemies closer”…
thats so wrong I go with what 2pac said ” watch for phonies, keep your enemies close, watch your homie” me and my “brothers” aka close friends talk about each other behind our backs a lot but we never say anything we wont say to each other kinda weird but we do say some harmfull shit and it’s better when we do it in front of each other everyone gets to know what everyone feels and its like our bonds get stronger kinda thing well I guess we are kinda wierd but who cares I know that they ready to ride and die for me and me the same to them.
OK so Noufa I guess you believe that “trust will end in betrayal” I’m not saying don’t trust anyone but that’s just the way trust ends. As a matter of fact I dont even trust myself cause I know if I was cloned and he had accelerated growth and is as old as me one of us will kill the other :P
October 15th, 2007 at
- Blue Dress: Am a dumb “truster” now?! LOL! Girl, you know how many times I told them about how I feel & what is wrong but they chose not to listen or ignore.. guess after all, I don’t give a rat’s ass!
- Intlxpatr: I learned that too late sadly & I tend to appreciate these gems as you called them :) thanks for the advice
- Qwaider: You see, it all depends on how you are with your friends; Sometimes people change & tend to think that they own you or they can manipulate you but don’t regret knowing people or don’t regret doing anything for any person, just be happy that you learned from the experience & make sure you never do it again.
- BBQ8: LOL! It was for certain people! Elly 3ala raso ba67a ye7asses 3aleiha! :P As for those people, yes I tend to do the same- simply cut them out of my life…
- Yara: Oh ! We’re here for you :* it’s not easy I know & LOL! I love the idea of throwing them in the ocean *wiggles eyebrows*
- Asoom: Smart girl :)
- Grey: Yes, have friends but keep unnecessary private details to yourself.. As for this friend, give him a chance for one last time :)
- 3baid: Not only greedy, jealousy is another factor
- Noufa: :) Me too!! They killed me asking to remove the player! Beeh! Ok, but at least keep some room in your heart for those special ones girl
- Sowhat: LOL! Yes you wise one, you can’t steps to get them in your life – bas for some people e7m e7m, these steps are usually skipped ! :$
- Hopeless Poet: Very flexible when it comes to letting people go – it’s never that easy for me as I strive hard to keep things solid bas yalla, it’s ok!
- Tooomz: This subject kills me too! But I stopped complaining ! As for letting people in, am very friendly & social – no screening process involved :P am very patient & when they over do it – I quietly withdraw ..
- Amu: No kicking involved!
October 15th, 2007 at
Oh yeah about the player keep the music just disable the autoplay feature that way people would have a choice to listen or not if theres such a feature in your player that is
October 15th, 2007 at
Mojrem enta ya Tat! 2pac meen!? el ma2soof 3ala shababo! LOL!
Man, I know… bas this say it in front of your friend 9a3ba shway.. I mean, you gotta have consideration to the feelings of that person too – either advise or keep your mouth shut you know, that’s being honest..
as for the god damned freakin’ player – khalas! I removed it FOR NOW, you hear me people! beeeh!
October 15th, 2007 at
Hehehe I screen because I got tired of weeding people out of my life ;P Having others vouch for a person cuts down on the amount of drama that makes its way into my life.
October 15th, 2007 at
LOL! Yeah I know – bs TRUST ME, you won’t be sorry :P *booty shake*
October 16th, 2007 at
Oh I’ve been hurt, so naturally, I don’t trust easy. I do forgive and forget but learned that I have to be more careful..
October 16th, 2007 at
Dearest Chika .. For me in Arabic I can say that (( el denya 3a6atny 6ragaat wayed w 3alemtny wayed )) .. I trust no one.. I have trust issues in fact!
I went through a lot of bad incidents with my friends, the kind of incidents that show u how bad or how good are your friends. I ended up having 2 or 3 friends, yes they are close 2 me and everything but still I can’t let it all go! Can’t talk freely with them and can’t reveal all my secrets to them. How ever how good they are, I still have trust issues! Sometimes I just wish of there is some one I can feel my self with or can talk about wat ever comes to my mind or about wat worrying me .. But lel2asaf .. I can’t trust any. This might sound sick by the way ?
I decided to make my sisters my only close friends, but there are times wer the thing u want to tak about is not a sister to sister talk .. I decided then 2 keep it inside of me.. Till I explode one day maybe ?
These r the types of friends I have:
1. The stingy: elee te6la3 ma3ach 3shaan ta9refeen 3leeha.
Examples:
She: where r u ¿
Me: zara
She: weee 3ad ana thak el yoom shayfee jeanz 3jeeb yebeeli m3ach 3fya.
She: 3afya e5thele ra9eed met-hawsha m3a flana w bred 3leeha eb msg w tawa 5ala9 ra9eedy w ma agdar a6la3.
And many others .. w 6b3an wen ever we go out .. It’s all on my treat.. Cinemas, restaurants .. All!
Seee ana mo ba5eela bel 3ks ana 7eel kareeema .. w I admire sharing w el freinds should act like brothers and sisters, bs lama yekoon shy wa’9e7 chethy I consider it rudeness.
2. The one who keeps talking about her self for an hours! And never bother her self to ask you at first if u r n a good mood to listen!! She doesn’t mind talking till the mobile battery die! And of course I have 2 listen, she is my friend after all.
3. The one who keeps telling lies, her brother owns madry shenooo .. she bought madree shenooo, w madry meno flaan el flaani wanted to know her!! Mara it’s shei5, other time it’s a big manager, mara a very well known celebrity.. wa hakatha!! She don’t get that wat I care about is her, not how much or wat she has!
W bsss .. well chicka sorry for the long comment! It’s looks more like a post walla!
mo menny .. men ele feeeny :)
October 16th, 2007 at
- Shayouma, that’s smart – better be careful I guess :)
- Cat: La2 3ady :) take as mych space as you want & rant girl!! You see, yes I’ve been around people like that bas at least you are aware of what’s happening; Now you can stop them by being firm & saying NO! It works believe me…
Do not shut the door – have trust bas be careful as Shayouma said.. also, what you are doing is right, you don’t go saying everything even if you are close friends mo 3ashan the trust issue bas 7attan fel deen we are told to keep our secrets for ourselves :)
October 16th, 2007 at
yep.. that’s life.. you meet the good, bad, and horrible!
October 16th, 2007 at
All the friends that I’ve trusted became friends with my worst enemies. I knew about their enemies, they knew about my enemies. I trusted them because they are my friends. I have the same problem, I’m so kind and down to earth. I always end up trusting the wrong people. I do not talk to them no matter how ugly it is. I ignore them completely. ‘Cause whoever does this to you is not worth your friendship, is not worth 7eta inich itdegeen or explain to them how you feel, skip forever w ham eshway 3alaihom. I never talked to them about it at all, I usually as7aab 3alaihom sefoun mo7taram eli yerin w I don’t pick up.. but in this 1 case, I talked to this girl about it. Because she was in my family, she knows that I won’t ever forgive her. Sorry gelt lich qe9aat 7ayati bs my point is, after you know this about them inah they talk behind your back, w kil shay nasty sawooh 7agich, you won’t trust them ever again. I say it again, eli yesawi feech chethe ya Chika w entay bent 7abooba wallah ma3arfich ana kilish bs you seem like a very caring w sweet girl w galbich 6ayeb. They don’t deserve your friendship.
About my friends and who I trust right now.. my 2 bestfriends. Bas. If something happens between us inshallah there won’t.. I won’t ever ever trust anyone ’3airhom. I trust them with my life.
October 17th, 2007 at
No babe it’s ok :) I had cases like that bs all you say is allah yesame7 & move on & believe the following: “What goes around, comes around” :)