Men’s Theory of “THE MENU”
Once upon a time, a NOT SO WISE man said “Women are like dishes / items on a menu; You can never stick to one thing all the time! You gotta try all types of items so you don’t get bored!”
OK!!!!!!! WHATEVER!!
Seriously! Why don’t men stick to just one – THE ONE – why do they have to flirt around??! Fonzy wrote something about that in the morning. No it’s not ok to look even if it was for a split second!
Why do men have the sense that they have to change things or they will get bored?! What is it with men & infidelity?! Ok, it’s not only men, some women are actually worst bas I am speaking about the majority of the sinners which are men – do not argue back saying women make men do that… no good! tsk tsk tsk!
P.S: Pls excuse the bad quality of the picture editting, I had to do it in a rush!
November 8th, 2007 at
i know! i’m trying to figure out the same thing myself. ya3ni if she’s good with him, lesh he has to look for other people?
November 8th, 2007 at
Uh, I might have a different perspective on it.
Hubby doesn’t get bored, but likes to look – and so do I.
We are both ok with it, we “eat” at home :)
I could keep trying to explain it, but I don’t think that would get me anywhere :)
November 8th, 2007 at
When men stare they make you feel naked however covered you were! I hate it when they do that!
Plus some of them follow girls around without a reason?
November 8th, 2007 at
I for one prefer to find one girl and stay with her. But it’s ok to just share our opinions of other “hot” people as well!
November 8th, 2007 at
I agree. They look at us like we are a commodity to be picked up when they are bored and that they can easily swop for another when they are done with us. I must say ( hate to generalise but) I think the infidelity thing is much worse over here for two reasons.
Expat men who come over without their wife see it as “not the real world” and recon they can carry on behind their wife’s back- out of sight out of mind!
Local men are crap at fidelity cos (whatever you think of it) their culture tells them they can have their cake and eat it too up to 4 times. Even the one’s that claim not to agree with the more than one wife thing are quite happy to have two girlfriends on the go- it’s crap I tell you. They should learn to control themselves I say! Mandatory castration I say!!!
wife thing
November 8th, 2007 at
Of course infidelity is NEVER OK!!
i wouldnt like it if my man was “looking at other girls” u know why? becoz they r more likely to cheat than us girls!
i like to look too, but if i had a guy i was in love with, i would never think about doing anything, i’ll just take a “sneak peek”!
November 8th, 2007 at
its simple, because men (me included) are chauvinist pigs :P
November 8th, 2007 at
Oh you girls are still discussing this issue.
I gave up a looooooong time ago.
It’s biology, can’t mess with that, or that’s what I’d like to believe so I won’t have to tackle this again :)
November 8th, 2007 at
Where i work , its not possible for me not to look and drool ! But that does not make me a bad husband . *drooling is a state of mind , not of heart *
November 8th, 2007 at
I better stay out from these violent discussions! :D
November 8th, 2007 at
honey mo bass men look, women do too, madre no comment on this one :*
November 8th, 2007 at
It’s natural for guys to look, and it’s also natural for girls to like being looked at. If you don’t wanna be looked at, stop sulking and wear a 3abaya. Either that or you have a serious confidence problem.
November 8th, 2007 at
Who me!? Does the post mention me being upset from being looked at or not?! Walla is it even under the category “world revolves around me” !! Do not personally attack unless you read & understand. I also do not need to tell you if I have a personality problem or not! huh!
November 8th, 2007 at
alotta times i read your posts and scroll down to comment, but there are just so many comments that i dont feel like reading.. and i end up not typing one, cause i dont wanna feel redundant or repetitive *hoping no one typed an identical comment to this* :/
November 8th, 2007 at
“inah allaho jameelon yo7ibo al jamaal”- justifiable i guess.
i also agree with Bakez they are pigs, not all though.
also women are pigs not all though. (me not included)
i also think that entrecote is delicious with the greeen
gravy umm umm umm…
And don’t let me remind you about the
Escaloppini willa what ever they call it
and the steak from that green
Restaurant of yours.
November 8th, 2007 at
I didn’t notice the bad quality of the picture until you said so !
I think men look around because they were made that way, i mean thinking of it in islam marrying 4 was OK which explains how they can’t help them selves with their animality (animal like behavior) But is not the excuse for them to look around and play!
Since i’m talking about islam , islam also tought them how to tame them selves and be good to their one wife and not to go for wife2.3. or4 unless many rules mentioned.
But i believe men look around because they are too lazy to focus on the one they have in hand, they are lazy to know her well, lazy to go ddeep into her ewhich i am sure they will love more and by that they lose the easiest way which is other girls on the menu o allah ma akthar ila hal banat bil kuwait, they would go to any man married with kids ba6eeeekh.. il mohem wa7ed!
It is like a lazy studnet he doesn’t feel like studying and his friends show him how to cheat on the exam and he does it to be lazy.
cheerz
November 8th, 2007 at
hi
ana motab3a lich mn zeman bs awal marra asharik
kint ga3da afaker fe hal mawtho3 alyom kila why !?
coz kint ga3d atahawsh weya wa7d weyanna mortta walddaaaa!!!
o fe bait ahalhaa o ohwa ga3ed yekhonha !
with mnoo
with her freied!!
gemt a9arekh mn gomat rasy 3ala aljaremma ely betser fe 7ag morta
ely ye7er fe almawtho3 ena hatha alzoowj yemooooooot 3alla mortta !!
o enshoffa fe weekend with her fe marina o alaveune o alnaaaas kilha 7asdennaha 3alih
OOOOH flaaaaaaaaan yemot 3la morttaaaaaa
o ohwa yegooly Todaaaaaaay sorry 3alla alkilmmaaaaaaa
o sam7oony 4 that yegoly ((fu…ing )) mo kheyannaaaaaaa!!!
o 3ashan artaaaaaaaaaa7 lazm aghayer o ohya fe bait ahalhhaaaaaaa!!!
ya sallaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaam
seeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeej sara7a ma7ad mertaaaaaaaa7
November 8th, 2007 at
That is a pretty F***ed up situation!
November 8th, 2007 at
Abdvllah
I hate to rant on someone else’s blog but -WTF????
There is a massive difference between having a quick look to check someone out and the aggressive leering that quite a few men out here do. There are some men that make women really uncomfortable with their stares.
I am proud to be a modern, strong woman who takes a pride in her appearance but that should not mean that I am putting myself out there to get stared at or hassled.
Why the hell should I wear an Abaya. Perhaps men should learn what is appropriate behaviour and what is not. The amount of fights I break up at school because of a son or brother feeling that their sisters or mothers have been insulted and they must defend their honour never faces to amaze me when I see the same boys (Variety of arab nationalities) letching at the girls!
Again I say Mandatory castration!!!
Sorry for the rant Chika
November 8th, 2007 at
Babe… you can rant as much as you want ;) love you!
November 8th, 2007 at
Because men are never satisifed with themselves. They have to seek satisfaction in a gazillion women. pissed
November 8th, 2007 at
Chika, you opened a good can of worms with this one!
Go Chika, Go Chika!!!
Girl Power all the way!!!!!!!!
please see rant continuation on my blog.
Luv to all you liberated women out there!
Pinky
November 8th, 2007 at
I totally agree with Pinky and respect her perspective. There’s that one quick look & there’s that undressing-stare. We’re humans and being attracted to each other is absolutely normal.
I also don’t get it when a guy goes around and checks out girls left & right, but when there’s a slight possibility that his sister is talking to someon else (it’s probably not true anyway!) he freaks out and beats the crap out of her!
November 9th, 2007 at
We are NOT dishes on a menu , we are something far more tastier and better than this !
so0 whoever consider that theory is a DIMWIT ;)
November 9th, 2007 at
ana ashof ena many women cheat as much as men, it is a misconception that more men cheat, just more men get caught. women are just so sneaky and clever ;p
November 9th, 2007 at
just stay single and save urself a lot of heart ache
November 9th, 2007 at
Eshda3wa ya shda3wa!? La la, I still insist, Mr. right will find me one day! I still have hope :p
November 9th, 2007 at
Chikapappi,
does the comment mention anywhere the name ‘Chikapappi’? FYI, the word ‘you’ does not refer to a single individual, but also a group of people. Yeah the ‘world doesn’t revolve around you’ so why did you take this as a personal attack i wonder???
pinky,
So in the second comment you say ‘some’ men, and in your first one you say you hate to generalize- and I quote- “Local men are crap” , “are [men married to single wives] quite happy to have two girlfriends”, “Mandatory castration I say” (mentioned once in each comment). It’s pretty clear you have some kind of personal problem with men which I won’t talk about so this doesn’t turn into a fight (and so that Chikappapi doesn’t think i’m attacking her).
November 9th, 2007 at
Ok, then make it clear next time you write because I always say, words do not express feelings the right way.. ba3dein it’s your right to say what you think bas I had my share of bad comments & it’s better to be safe than angry!
I also do not agree on you assuming that someone is having personal issues, it’s private & anyone can say what he – she wants here.. as long as I approve the comments, I will assure that no one gets hurt .. except men of course :P
November 9th, 2007 at
This is a men nature i guess !! they can’t stop looking around !
November 9th, 2007 at
Again Go Chika Go!!!
I have no personal issues, just fed up of men that mess me or my female friends about.
November 9th, 2007 at
lol! Check out my blog :)
November 23rd, 2007 at
hmmmmm this is a very old theory…
lemme explain abit.
Do you guarantee that Friday’s cooks the Tennesi Grill Steak Medium well perfectly everytime you go there ???
naaaaaaaa..and they will never.. so you will have to try something else such as Chicken Finger, Shrimps…etc
on the other hand, ask your self; do you order the same 31 baskin Robins flavoured scoop everytime you go there ??? i doubt it. !!
Conclusion: men needs to change when the taste of their main course changes.. specially to worse.
No Harm feelings pals