Comments on: Marriage Season! http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 16:01:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Chikapappi http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/comment-page-1/#comment-23323 Chikapappi Tue, 13 Nov 2007 21:51:51 +0000 http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/#comment-23323 - LOL <strong>R</strong>!! You think!? Not me, am a Summer person :p !! - <strong>Asoom</strong>, ento strong :) & I don't think you'll fall into temptation bas yalla!! Do it girl!! - LOL R!! You think!? Not me, am a Summer person :p !!

- Asoom, ento strong :) & I don’t think you’ll fall into temptation bas yalla!! Do it girl!!

]]> By: Nicole http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/comment-page-1/#comment-23254 Nicole Tue, 13 Nov 2007 06:15:20 +0000 http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/#comment-23254 I always said that I never want to get married, well, when he asked me I didn't think twice. It happens or it doesn't. Just be yourself and Mr. Right will make you feel right :) I always said that I never want to get married, well, when he asked me I didn’t think twice.
It happens or it doesn’t.
Just be yourself and Mr. Right will make you feel right :)

]]> By: ? http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/comment-page-1/#comment-23247 ? Tue, 13 Nov 2007 04:48:32 +0000 http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/#comment-23247 They just say it this season because they want a man to cuddle up with. It happens every year, observe closely how during the summers when you ask a girl, "want to get married?" she'll reply, "waaaaaay ge6ee3a shako?! MAYNONA?!" While in winter you'll hear, "Ambaih ee weddi! abi wa7ed 7elo, emrayesh, weld 3ayla, shehada, ba6eekh, raggi oo romana." :) They just say it this season because they want a man to cuddle up with. It happens every year, observe closely how during the summers when you ask a girl, “want to get married?” she’ll reply, “waaaaaay ge6ee3a shako?! MAYNONA?!”

While in winter you’ll hear, “Ambaih ee weddi! abi wa7ed 7elo, emrayesh, weld 3ayla, shehada, ba6eekh, raggi oo romana.”

:)

]]> By: Cat http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/comment-page-1/#comment-23231 Cat Tue, 13 Nov 2007 00:11:58 +0000 http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/#comment-23231 every one of us enter the " I want to get married" circle at some point of his/her life .. Starting my own family, ur own family, her or his own family is just sooooooooooo cute and worthy! every one of us enter the ” I want to get married” circle at some point of his/her life ..

Starting my own family, ur own family, her or his own family is just sooooooooooo cute and worthy!

]]> By: :::Shayouma::: http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/comment-page-1/#comment-23226 :::Shayouma::: Mon, 12 Nov 2007 23:33:48 +0000 http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/#comment-23226 I didn't get the chance to feel that lol. In my time, marriage wasn't something in my head, I think now girls think about it more and more .. I didn’t get the chance to feel that lol.
In my time, marriage wasn’t something in my head, I think now girls think about it more and more ..

]]> By: Zia http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/comment-page-1/#comment-23219 Zia Mon, 12 Nov 2007 22:31:21 +0000 http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/#comment-23219 Allah iywafgich inshallah ew iywafig iljamee3! Supposedly I give off that defensive vibe too... shasawee! Ee you should give it a chance if you can! It's sinnat il7ayat.. i think shay 6abee3i ina ilwa7ad yabee yilga shareek 7ayata! It's definitely physical, emotional, ew spiritual! Besides, Allah khalaqna "Azwajan".... lol grey gives me hope! allah iykhaleekum 7ag ba3a'6 inshallah! Allah iywafgich inshallah ew iywafig iljamee3! Supposedly I give off that defensive vibe too… shasawee! Ee you should give it a chance if you can! It’s sinnat il7ayat.. i think shay 6abee3i ina ilwa7ad yabee yilga shareek 7ayata! It’s definitely physical, emotional, ew spiritual! Besides, Allah khalaqna “Azwajan”…. lol grey gives me hope! allah iykhaleekum 7ag ba3a’6 inshallah!

]]> By: Enigma http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/comment-page-1/#comment-23215 Enigma Mon, 12 Nov 2007 21:51:57 +0000 http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/#comment-23215 i feel i need to be in a stable relationship, both emptionally and physically.. unfortunately in our culture u need to be married in order to have that :( i need the stability, but i'm not ready for the responsibility of marriage birth i feel i need to be in a stable relationship, both emptionally and physically.. unfortunately in our culture u need to be married in order to have that :( i need the stability, but i’m not ready for the responsibility of marriage birth

]]> By: asoom http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/comment-page-1/#comment-23214 asoom Mon, 12 Nov 2007 21:15:42 +0000 http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/#comment-23214 LOOOL, chika guess what? I'm actually one of those girls, I recently announced to my mom, grandma, and 3 friends that "I'm Ready", it's been like 8 days and I've been told about a few guys to set me up with but they're all older which makes me think I should wait a few more years (I'm 23 now, the youngest guy they told me about was 30). The other thing that has really turned me off is that NON of them have american passports and that kinda scares me, I told my grandma to specifically find a cute american boy. so you wanna know why? Well for me it's posisbly stability, I'm going to be in a 4year intensive graduate program starting either next fall or the fall after that where I'm going to be confined to a city and really busy, I'll be 28 or 29 when I finish. I think it would be nice if I find my guy before then because during that time I wouldn't really be able to consider these things. Plus, I live in the west I'm surrounded by temptation habibti, while in my masters program I fell like head over heels over 2 of my colleagues, both of them non muslims. So I'm supposed to be single for the next 5 years around a whole bunch of cute and very eligible soon to be doctor nonmuslim boys????? I don't wanna do anything haraam thus it's better for me to not be single during that time if I can help it. LOOOL, chika guess what? I’m actually one of those girls, I recently announced to my mom, grandma, and 3 friends that “I’m Ready”, it’s been like 8 days and I’ve been told about a few guys to set me up with but they’re all older which makes me think I should wait a few more years (I’m 23 now, the youngest guy they told me about was 30). The other thing that has really turned me off is that NON of them have american passports and that kinda scares me, I told my grandma to specifically find a cute american boy.

so you wanna know why? Well for me it’s posisbly stability, I’m going to be in a 4year intensive graduate program starting either next fall or the fall after that where I’m going to be confined to a city and really busy, I’ll be 28 or 29 when I finish. I think it would be nice if I find my guy before then because during that time I wouldn’t really be able to consider these things. Plus, I live in the west I’m surrounded by temptation habibti, while in my masters program I fell like head over heels over 2 of my colleagues, both of them non muslims. So I’m supposed to be single for the next 5 years around a whole bunch of cute and very eligible soon to be doctor nonmuslim boys????? I don’t wanna do anything haraam thus it’s better for me to not be single during that time if I can help it.

]]> By: Teddy http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/comment-page-1/#comment-23213 Teddy Mon, 12 Nov 2007 21:03:27 +0000 http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/#comment-23213 I have been thinking of marriage for quite a while. Honestly, if the girl I want to be with shows up tomorrow & I know she is that person I've been searching for, I'd marry her without thinking twice. Unfortunately you see elders telling you stuff like "Where will you live?", "How will you provide for the both of you?", and questions that might make an individual have doubts about whether or not its time for them to take that big step. But I always say "Allah ra7 yarzigne, mosta7eel 2allah shoof shlon 2ana nawi adish ef 3alam el zawaj o ra7 at3ab, wohowa e5aleeni min '3eir ma esa3idni." I understand that the "Lovey-Dovey" stuff is during the honeymoon & sooner or later the seriousness will start, especially after the 1st baby. But that doesn't mean that beautiful flame is out! When both ends cooperate, that flame will keep on going for as long as they want it to be. Marriage is a beautiful thing, as a person who is going to enter the workplace soon enshallah, I honestly can't wait untll I find my other half. :D I have been thinking of marriage for quite a while. Honestly, if the girl I want to be with shows up tomorrow & I know she is that person I’ve been searching for, I’d marry her without thinking twice.

Unfortunately you see elders telling you stuff like “Where will you live?”, “How will you provide for the both of you?”, and questions that might make an individual have doubts about whether or not its time for them to take that big step. But I always say “Allah ra7 yarzigne, mosta7eel 2allah shoof shlon 2ana nawi adish ef 3alam el zawaj o ra7 at3ab, wohowa e5aleeni min ’3eir ma esa3idni.”

I understand that the “Lovey-Dovey” stuff is during the honeymoon & sooner or later the seriousness will start, especially after the 1st baby. But that doesn’t mean that beautiful flame is out! When both ends cooperate, that flame will keep on going for as long as they want it to be. Marriage is a beautiful thing, as a person who is going to enter the workplace soon enshallah, I honestly can’t wait untll I find my other half. :D

]]> By: princess http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/comment-page-1/#comment-23211 princess Mon, 12 Nov 2007 20:41:52 +0000 http://chikapappi.com/2007/11/12/inspired-by-the-girls-around-me/#comment-23211 hehehe 3asa mashar? give wat a shot? marriage? hehehe 3asa mashar? give wat a shot? marriage?

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