Men are pigs!
This is my own personal conclusion & until I find a decent guy who doesn’t take looks into consideration or leave his “BRAIN” inside his pants; it ain’t changing! This is to all of you girls out there!
You men wanna get pissed off fine! Go “funk” yourselves! Last thing I need is this!
I feel betrayed! I feel violated! I feel angry! I feel disgust! I feel like I wanna nuke their gender off the face of this Earth!! I am fuming while typing this post!
I know I said before that I don’t believe in cross gender relations & I seriously doubt this “friendship” term but after a series of events and situations, I confirmed my fears and uncertainties.
Many bloggerettes posted about men, expressing their anger & hurt & its sorta like having this “Male bashers” club! Which I totally want to lead.. no matter what one says in your defense gents, you always fuck things up! You’re so damn stupid!!
1.What makes you think it’s ok to call me stupid names! Honey, baby, love, cuttie! I ain’t no god damn baby you moron!
2. What makes you think that you own me you SOB! WTF! I am a free spirit! I am not in a relation with you neither will with any guy! I fucking hate being a “GIRLFRIEND” !! WTF! That’s so childish!
3. What makes you think I will attend to every single fucking phone call or sms!
4. Can’t I have my life!?! Which BTW, does not revolve around you!
I am pissed off! Can I make it any clearer!!
Damnit! Can’t a girl be friendly without someone thinking he can make his way inside her pants! Why don’t you respect it when a girl is nice, decent & friendly with you! What the fuck makes you think I am giving you green light to invade my private space & time!
How many times will I say that I DO NOT WANT A GUY! Yes I want to get married, I am straight, not a lesbian as some asked – am cute, hot & curvy yes I KNOW WHAT I AM & I want a man to love, spoil & kiss all night bas IT IS NOT YOU, NOR YOU, YOU DEFIANTLY NOT EWW!
GOD DAMINT! The worst thing is when you don’t comply to what they want, they shun you away, making it look like the girl is wrong! Like she sent wrong signals! Well guess what dickward! It’s your freakin’ head that’s messed up! You need to either go check a doctor or hang yourself from the closest fan.. I won’t feel sorry at all! I might throw a party actually! One less asshole & another God knows how many million to go…
For now, you can be glad that I am STILL nice, don’t test my patience! I can be REALLY REALLY nasty! humph!
December 14th, 2007 at
HEY HEY HEY!! I am the LEADER OF THE MALE BASHING CLUB!! THAT’S WHY I MADE MY SITE!! JEEEZ!! YOU CAN BE VICE PRESIDENT! EHM..
I love this post.. I love it.. can you message me privately or something to tell me the actual details because I am curious to know if it is a blogger or just a person you know in person..
Also, I agree.. MEN ARE PIGS!!
December 14th, 2007 at
LOOOOOOL
Okay first off as defence for guys!
us girls tooo! judge guys on looks…. its undeniable.
so you cant adress it to them when you do that too! KAPEESH!
Amma For the REst Applauuuuussssssss babay! wooohhhhhhoooooooooo
hahahaha coffffffffeeeeeeee
December 14th, 2007 at
khaaaaaaaaaaash!!!!
December 14th, 2007 at
yeeeeeeee shoo sar 7abibti! Hadi a3sabik ma fee 7ad byiswa ok?
Unfortunately you’re going to have to go through the assholes to get to “the one”, it’s like a requirement of some sort.
My suggestion to you is redefine what you’re looking for, or better yet just throw your whole criteria list out of the window! All that stuff that you ever said you wanted in a guy like what his age range should be, looks, where he grew up, what he’s doing for a living, money……just forget about that stuff and rather go with the flow of things.
I had my standards and went through a couple of the stereotypical alpha males in my lifetime: the hot, the young, the rich, the doctor, the reputable family……..and it always kind of ended before it even started because they were ASSHOLES!
I decided to just chill now and rather go with what feels right and what makes me feel comfortable….and so far things have been going good :)
December 14th, 2007 at
You’re steaaaaaaaamin’ LOOOOOOL
and let me add…and even if you’re nice and cute and curveous and on an misfortuned day were interested in the guy…guess what? HE WILL BE THE WORST OF BIGGY DOGS and turn your life into misery one way or the other……it’s a dead end .
December 14th, 2007 at
CHICKA!! HaBEEBti! They aren’t all this way, 3anjad, there are GREAT guys out there!!
But, yea, in their 20s they are led by their pants, I’m so sorry. After 30, their brains begin to lead them. Unless they are mamas boys, then there is no hope.
ALSO
December 14th, 2007 at
we’re pigs?!? DAMN YOU! :@ :P
as far as I know theres 2 type of men .. Men & Sheep! :D
so I think you’re referring to those sheep as being pigs!! and thats fine in terms of breeding :P
December 14th, 2007 at
I understand what you’re saying , there is not a single girl who has not gone through what you’ve just mentioned .
But i don’t you think you should give up on being friends with guys , believe me sometimes they get you like no other girl . You just have to tell them from the start explicitly and clearly : ‘ no monkey business ok ? ‘ and they’ll get it if you’re talking to the right kind of human .
It will pass .
Cheers .
December 14th, 2007 at
…what Assom said about the Alpha male is SO true. Go for a stable Beta, for the right wife will bring out his Alpha.
December 14th, 2007 at
Chubby fingers
December 14th, 2007 at
Meh .. For what its worth .. there are a handful of insane women too.
December 14th, 2007 at
Go Chika! Despite my recent possible luck I am still a major sceptic about men and trust etc! If he pisses you off again let me re-arrange his face!!
Solidarity Sister!
December 14th, 2007 at
where do i sign up for the club ?
December 14th, 2007 at
K., Yeah I know why they turned bad, MEN! err..
December 14th, 2007 at
Gosh! Who betrayed Chika?!? :x
By the way, I too fell for these mushy words(you are so sweet, thanks, et all) and those girls told me it’s over! :o
Relationship bliss, but it helps us to be stronger :D
December 14th, 2007 at
Whoever man pissed you off, he must have REALLY hit your buttons. You didn’t put any info on what happened, but it sounds like you had a male “friend” who took this “friendship” in his own mind as a sign that you wanted him? just a guess… please don’t shout at me or call me a pig :)
December 14th, 2007 at
best post ever!
yeah I agree too, most men are pigs throw cows at them. you can have male/ female relationship. However, the male must be gay in order to have (good friendship).
December 14th, 2007 at
LOL You sound very upset! Me too…. Men are PIGS!
December 14th, 2007 at
” Yoga instructor ”
* Breath in *…………….
* Breath out *…………….
.. and again ..
* Breath in *…………….
* Breath out *…………….
.
Relax .. i think the problem is that the kind of men that are hitting on nice descent women .. is because they don’t have the talent .. nor the guts to hit it with the “B .. T.Y” type ..
looking for free ..!! e7em e7em ..!!
have a life.!
i think you should look for the “om rannna” missed call type :)
December 14th, 2007 at
yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees
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le meta? walah me too t3bt..same situation every time.
and i have a big Q : if every girl have to go through the pigs to get to the good guy..is there enough for all of us? or r we recycleing the pigs in to good guys? or what?
like every pig has to go through 10-20 girls to reform himself to be the”one” for the next girl?????
December 14th, 2007 at
A lot of people here ma yen3a6oon wayh..They immediately think you’re giving them the green light when you’re nice and friendly, or that they have a chance!
I’m sure there are some good guys out there.
December 15th, 2007 at
sorry chika but i had to post this other comment ..
PINK : Amazing work flow you have got there going through your head .!!
December 15th, 2007 at
Oh Oh that is a very angry post.. calm down sweeti.. Not all men are like that ..
December 15th, 2007 at
kel shy fe menah el zeen w el shain ya chakchook :) hatha ur new nickname
December 15th, 2007 at
All over the years sooner or later it developed that guys just want to get in your pants.
Period.
From age 14 my best friends, until then guys, turned on me asking me to be their “girlfriend”.
I was bewildered, irritated.
I tried a few more times.
Just doesn’t work.
That was the so called modern western culture.
My ass.
Now, take men, or guys that are grown up in your culture. Where, when you look someone in the eyes for a second too long that person 90% of the times thinks you are hitting on him.
Sorry you are pissed – don’t waste your energies on idiots like that. It’s not worth it!
December 15th, 2007 at
hmmmm….. so just coz of few guys. the entire race of men get blamed?
December 15th, 2007 at
As I told you before, there is no such thing as friendship between men and women. I guess you’ve been friendly with that guy in a non-professional manner.
Expect things like what happened; whatever was your situation was with him.
I always pity extra-nice girls as I foresee them getting hurt because of their pure stupidity, and on the other hand, I admire strict girls who never talk to no one out side the work domain.
December 15th, 2007 at
Rayboy, not all! yes there are a few good men out there bas they have to suffer yes!
December 15th, 2007 at
9arat m3ay with like, 3 bloggers. Inba6at chabdi..
December 15th, 2007 at
and mo bas il shabab.. w ham fee girls ma yen3a6on wayh. fe cham wa7da widi ados ib ba6enha..
December 15th, 2007 at
Uhhh..all i can say is one word..’wow’..
well this world has its fair share of guys like u described and i’m pretty sure an equal number of insane women too.
blow off the steam!
December 15th, 2007 at
it wasn’t me…:P
December 15th, 2007 at
Never been in a friendship relation with a girl, basically it doesn’t make sense, you ask why, i tell you why, its our nature, its our own way of living, people tend to ignore some facts and principles which the nature has the biggest impact upon, it just doesn’t work like that, bare in mind its a conservative society we are in, it will never work the way you imagined it to be, no matter how openminded you are “introducing yourself as an openminded to a man from our society means your mind will fathom any thoughts of taboo, and you have no black lists nor intolerable subjects to discuss about according to their knowledge for the definition of openminded people, i DARE anyone to prove the opposite” because its our nature, maybe a handful of guys/girls will manage to get along with it but with some flaws too, the simplest and harmless one is fantasizing the other partner. thats why.
btw i refuse to be referred as a pig.
December 15th, 2007 at
Oh come on!
How come you can’t find a guy who will not take “brains” as #1 important thing in a girl?
Well, I personally believe that guys who see the looks & body curves are #1 priority will always exist, but there are others “like me personally” who needs an intelligent mind to talk to!
I am not saying this as a show off, heck now! I just really find it logical to consider “Brain” before “Body curves”.
No offense to anyone, but there are a quintillion divine beautiful girls who are “practically” airheads. Honestly, I’d rather spend my time with a smart brain than a beautiful/hot body!
But this is just me :)
December 15th, 2007 at
wooooo! go go go girl.. :P hah! But dont you feel guilty for calling all of them as a pig. Just a thought…
Please dont be mad at me. lol!
*hugs*
chill..!
December 15th, 2007 at
Looool! Great post! I love it.
December 15th, 2007 at
Long live Chika!
December 15th, 2007 at
Human Nature period.
I think everyone is looking for this perfect somethin but there is no such thing, you might find someone as perfect however, you’ll soon discover something you wont like heh…
December 15th, 2007 at
I didn’t say I need someone perfect, girls now look for decent guys “.” !
- Tiger, I didn’t say you are a pig!
December 15th, 2007 at
Think of it both ways ?
everything breaks down of course if life is just a game though
December 15th, 2007 at
yes I know it applies on both & yes life is a gamble yet riskds can be calculated – check previous posts.
December 15th, 2007 at
Some gys are pigs. Some of them are just dogs. And there are a few out there who are really good people. I guess it’s just me, but I take relationships slowly – all of them, male and female. I don’t want a lot of drama. When you take time, you get to know the value and worth of the person you deal with. You feel betrayed less often. A lot of times the very best guys aren’t the glossy ones, they are the quiet, steady ones.
December 15th, 2007 at
lololol.. somebody needs to pay a visit to the mad house ;D
On a serious note though..
“Many bloggerettes posted about men, expressing their anger & hurt & its sorta like having this “Male bashers” club!”
That’s because happy people don’t need or have the time to write about being happy. Have you thought about that?
December 15th, 2007 at
Is that what you think so! OK, This is gonna be a separate post & your comment will be quoted!
December 15th, 2007 at
the irregular plural of the word man is men, and man is who i am
December 15th, 2007 at
Yes, but also I go by the saying: “elle 3ala raso b67a ye7asses 3aleiha”! did I tackle that feather on your head ! :p So, chill out bro!
December 16th, 2007 at
Men and women cannot be friends.
Proof; your last 3 paragraphs.
December 16th, 2007 at
Maybe this guy is a player? Bas I agree with K. I won’t judge guys in this way because some are marriage material and some are not ready and never will be. And just the same applies for some ladies out there. You know girls are difficult to please too.
December 17th, 2007 at
wow kelkum feekum 7eqd ? :=P
well for one thing, when u say that “ALL MEN ARE PIGS” i can simply go like “ALL GIRLS ARE GOLD DIGGERS” yeah can u deny ? :r , when u go into a relationship with a guy only because he has a fancy car or wears some kinda expensive brands o hal swalef ely t6ayer 3goolkum, 3balech ena he is the one only because he owns these things ? o ba3dain lama ygazerha tez3loon ? wain mokhech awal ma 3arafteeh ? wela 6ar weya his ride :=P
unless u be reasonable i have nothing further to say ghair “allah yahdeekum o next time use ur brains GOLD DIGGERS :=P”
December 17th, 2007 at
It takes a smart woman to be a gold digger ;) get the flow!? :p it beats being a stinky animal LOL
December 17th, 2007 at
ok i am stepping on dangerous grounds facing 50 comments from furious ladies but here goes :P
1. being called baby and honey is not a bad thing, it is something cute that the couple label each other as a sign of affection. Being called a “baby” doesnt mean u r a baby… :) And on that note, usually guys say “babe” so when they say “baby” it means they feel more comfortable and at ease with u.
2. ur right, nobody owns u and if any guy acts like he does, then dump him. as for the girlfriend issue, that is just a matter of preference, many girls enjoy the idea.
3. if ur complaining bout his messages and calls, then that means he is being too clingy and u dont share his feelings so dump him. And if u say u like him but he is too clingy, then u r just lying to urself and in a BS relationship. And if he is just a friend, and calling so often for no reason, then cut him off so he gets the point. Just try and put urself in his shoes, if u were to message and call often and he ignores, how wud u feel?…. assuming u like him and he likes u.
4. same as point 2. u shud have and keep ur personal life.
You’re a friendly person and I am not surprised that some guys misunderstand it as a sign of attraction. I met u once, and thought u were very sociable… others will view it as “she wants me”. Not excusing those guys, but if it is bothering u so much, maybe u shud take ur “social” level a notch lower with certain guys, I mean u cant hang all those guys from fans, so you might as well filter them :)
Ok now I am gonna go dig my grave :P
December 17th, 2007 at
Chika no it doesnt, even khadamatna knows the difference between a porsche and a toyota , all u need is ur eyes aw eb me3na a9a7 “shallow” :=P
April 30th, 2008 at
YES Men are filthy one track minded pigs and we women should ask the government to GAS all of them . You make the mistake of thinking men are human – kill them all.If not send them out to war against each other. WHY OH WHY ARE WOMEN STILL EVEN DATING THE PIGS AFTER 3 DECADES OF FEMINISM?????
ALL MEN ARE BASTARDS. I hate men and make NO apology for it.
I hear that young men are killing themseleves – suicide increasingly these days I say GOOD RIDDANCE!
April 30th, 2008 at
HATE HATE is all I ever hear from women. I am sick of women
“Gas all men “my sister says…imagine any other group being treated this way or called pigs blacks jews etc THERE WOULD BE AN uproar.
May 2nd, 2008 at
Rebellious Arab Girl:
If I was near you I would murder you.
I would set you on fire and allow your sisters to watch with the threat that if they do not love and obey men they too will die in the same manner.
August 20th, 2008 at
Maybe 40% the men population are “Pigs!” However, my man is not one of them (I hope). Jay has been the best boyfriend, friend, that I ever had. No matter if I get mad or even if I’m wrong, he’ll always say he’s sorry. He does everything for me as far as paying all the bills and putting me to schoo, takes care of my son. But, the only thing that he does not do is, laundry, cooking and grocery.
November 19th, 2008 at
…what you’re saying goes either way, and you’ll never find a perfect man and you aren’t as cute as you think you are. In fact I think you should settle for a normal man instead of hoping that Mister “assertive”/”sensitive” is coming. He ain’t cause he don’t exist. You should fix your selection in men. Also, is that image implying that women are cows?
November 19th, 2008 at
If you read the blog, you will know that I wrote another post titled: “women can be pigs too” – and I hate to burst your bubble buddy but your negativity ain’t rubbin’ off.. and yeah am normal and ugly even fugly, it doesn’t concern you anyways :) thanks for the tip though!
November 25th, 2008 at
men dont have girls that are “just friends” they only have girls they havent fucked YET. bottom line, that is the ONLY reason any guy talks to a girl. try reading the S.C.U.M. Manifesto.
June 13th, 2009 at
Shut up women.
September 5th, 2011 at
this site and menarebetterthanwomen.com are complete and total bullshit… i’m a guy (inb4 wave of hatred) and I judge people by their actions not their gender, skin colour or religion, it’s unfair to think someones scum because of how they look or what genitals they have or even what they believe so why do people like you and the people on the other site have to be so immature? I may be only 16 and I may not have experienced as much as all of you but I know for a fact that there are plenty of good people in this world and instead of labeling everyone as a cunt i’d rather try my best to get along with everyone