Excuse me for not being “pretty” enough for you…
Let me first tell you that I really hate the type of guys that we stumble across now a days; Not all are bad but the majority sure misrepresents the rest. I do not want to go into the looks issue but I swear to God I felt really sick today when we went shopping at Fanar then went to have some coffee at Starbucks! Some of these fellas look like they escaped an asylum!! For some weird reason most of them look like they came out of a 50 Cent video, thugs and “gangstas” if you know what I mean! What counts is the way they act and boy they suck at it… soooooo freakin’ immature and lame….
One shouldn’t let insignificant people with their stupid ideas effect or ruin his / her day but bottom line, one also has to stand against those bullies who try to influence their surroundings by spreading SHIT! yes SHIT… as if our communities are not messed up enough! Utter mess and trash.. this is how I describe it.
So after work yesterday I went shopping for some gym outfits (since I became so self conscious after the hole in the pant accident) and Blue Dress and Enigma tagged along… it was cool and everything was ok and we crossed over to H&M. Now, I was trying my best to dodge this person who keeps pissing me off by referring to my weight gain till I cant stand any more so I prefer to stay away to avoid a nasty confrontation which is ok for me too. Picked up our stuff and went to the cashier to pay and there we were standing in front of this dude who was transferred from the Avenues, one that is as stupid as any dumb ass could ever be in this world! He starts talking to one of the girls asking what are you doing here blah blah and a couple of lines that I missed till she told him don’t you remember her too? who is my good self of course and it went as follows:
DUMBO: ” No I don’t! I do not know her at all” !!
She: “But she was there with us!”
Dumbo: “No, why would I remember her!?” with a smirk on his ugly face
That’s when I butt in and go like: “Come on! you stood there in front of me blabbering for a good 20 minutes then you followed me around the shop!”
Dumbo: “Meeee!?! Follow YOU!!???” with this expression on his face that made him look like he just stepped on a pile of shit!
DING DING DING!! ALARM goes on!! Head exploding! Blood rushing through my veins!! I kept quiet for a couple of seconds till I lashed out at him in my own random words.. He stood their speechless!! Me happy of course! Both girls watched with their mouthes opened :D they later told me that people were shocked too! LOL
Awkward moment of silence followed by: “Well now he’s gonna remember me for EVER” *grin*
Dumbo: “What!? you think I will remember you for ever!?” embarrassed
uhaa you dimwit! live with it! that’s what I was thinking till I concluded this conversation by my advice to ugly face by saying:
“Next time when you talk to people, do not make faces” !! Yup! He thinks he can emotionally bully me! He messed around with the wrong person! Take the stuff and walk away…
Now, I am not pissed off because some stupid person like him didn’t appreciate my looks (not that I am pretty or anything), it’s the whole concept of altered beauty that men now seek. A girl has to be skinny, in size 0 pants with all her silhouette showing, hair do and make up of course. Is that the way you judge a girl? Is artificial or sleazy the “in” now?
So if you are covered you are “yukh”?? but if you have what someone likes you will be served better and much faster? what a dumb world we are living in?
How stupid some guys could be?? He was acting like a caveman “ho ho haaa” behavior in front of the shoppers behind us and not only that!! He wanted to pick up his shattered dignity by arguing back to show the rest that he is a MAN! ohhh I was sooo intimidated!
Conclusion:
Girls, pls starve yourselves to death, look like clowns, dress up like hookers and you will be just fine! :)
February 1st, 2008 at
awal shay before i read your post, bs 7abait agool enna the woman in the picture 7ad’ha RO333B lol
February 1st, 2008 at
qillat adab sara7a
February 1st, 2008 at
who cares..ki** b5tah.
February 1st, 2008 at
I didn’t read the whole thing. But trust me, whoever thinks you’re not pretty enough for them is either blind of stupid or both.
I’m not trying to hit on you or anything. But you need to get more confident. You are who you are and who ever doesn’t like it can bust their head against the wall
Feel free not to approve this comment if you think it’s not appropriate!
February 1st, 2008 at
you were too kind to him!
btw, it’s a disturbing pic you’ve got on here! :)
February 1st, 2008 at
he will definitely remember that forever! hahaha!
February 1st, 2008 at
Wow Chika.. that was quite a day aye?
Some people out there have pitiful social etiquette. I’m happy you stood up for yourself though- shows the self-love and acceptance that is important. :)
Well done 7abeebty! :)
February 1st, 2008 at
looks like we are all mad at guys today!! i’ll announce it as the official day to hate guys! sho?
February 1st, 2008 at
In a real life, yea, the appreances, beauty and all the physical things are everything. But, as you getting older all these things will just faded away by all the ugly wrinkles unlike the beauty in heart, which will last forever. insha allah. =)
February 1st, 2008 at
Would you tell Blue Dress we are missing her very much and to come back?
Chicki, don’t give the clowns the time of day. Walk away. They are lower than chewing gum on the sidewalk.
February 1st, 2008 at
I hardly make eye contact with sales persons! I dont really talk much to them except when I want something, Hi, Thanks, and Bye LOL
The new employed ones in Al Shaya stores lack experience and are so slow! ARGHHHHH
February 1st, 2008 at
I think both ends of the confrontation have questionable attitudes IMHO.
February 1st, 2008 at
Not really Abduallah, you see I mentioned in the post that I tend to avoid confrontation which in other words might mean I do not want to just pick up fights. I also said I was standing there quiet till he made the face, I was “nice” to this stupid sales person that hovers around girls in that shop minding my own business. If there’s anyone with an attitude and a serious problem is that guy YET I am not being defensive. This is your view on the situation and you are entitled of your own thoughts :) and YES YOU ARE :p
February 1st, 2008 at
maybe he’s gay?
February 1st, 2008 at
Nooo Miya he’s not! Oh man, that’s why he got offended with what I told him which I cannot blog >:)
February 1st, 2008 at
lol @ conclusion.
I’m telling you that guy picked the wrong chick to mess with,its exactly as you describe it emotional bully method which is carried out by fools,to try to show himself superior (ou inno il shab il dunjuan aka bastoni)..but you just saved weak women who will come in his way..cause he’ll think a hundred times next time before he use this foolish method.
February 1st, 2008 at
@@!! Is that comment from you!? Wow! first time for you to stand by me like this! *bows to Mr. anon.*
February 1st, 2008 at
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
February 1st, 2008 at
“Vega” I know, the issue is not beauty here I am discussing, it’s the way some men act around your so called “beauty”..
February 1st, 2008 at
That’s men for you!
February 1st, 2008 at
Blue dress ? Who ? I don’t remember ! :D
February 2nd, 2008 at
My entitled opinion was not based on this situation only, but on all of your posts.
And yeah.. you know where to put ur hate comments ;)
February 3rd, 2008 at
YOur great fine lady!!!
and I love you !! :)
Let it burn away..well.. I guess you did..but still u need to express it , right?
February 3rd, 2008 at
He can go screw himself! and so can anyone else who judges!!!
February 3rd, 2008 at
He’s got a stick shoved deep enough up his arse to make him have a permanent expression of ‘pleasant shock’. Idiot.
Sales people should keep their mouths shut & do their jobs.
February 4th, 2008 at
That was annoying, and surprised that people still do exist who will mainly stress on beauty. It sure sucks! :(
February 14th, 2011 at
Nice article, could’t agree more!