Apr
26
2008

Voluntary Manslaughter

Although we left the 3aza – mourning place hours ago; I am still so sad and very angry at the same time. No matter how you interpret or try to explain how grieving is kind of therapeutic, I still have this urging wish of magically taking pain away – let’s say, fix all the shit in this world so no one goes through agony…

A dear friend of ours, more like a sister now lost an aunt and has the other one in the hospital in critical condition because of an accident… You see, you read things in the newspaper and you sympathize with the families of those people but it’s different when it is someone you know in person is involved.. I lost a cousin because of reckless driving – he wasn’t even behind wheel but sadly he was torn to pieces because of the impact.. He was only 18!!

Let me go deeper… We all know that booze in this country is LEGAL, I mean we know that everybody here parties and gets drunk and I said it before, if you don’t care about religion or your lives up to you but at least have the decency to consider other peoples’ lives for god’s sake!

Three women on the street to the chalets were hit by a teenager who was not sober (what ever that means because it might either be drugs or alcohol); He hit their car killing two instantly and the third is still in the hospital not aware that her sister is dead… I wonder how this poor woman will feel waking up to such devastating news…

This woman and the one of those who passed away are sister, aunts of our friend….

I hate funerals.. I do not like death as most of the rest although of the morals we should get behind Allah’s plan for all of us on earth but it was heart breaking seeing the girls of the deceased.. There is nothing worse than suddenly losing a loved one and in such situations.. I mean the kid who is responsible for this deserves to die for taking away lives due to his careless behavior..

May they rest in peace and for your other aunt to get out of the hospital soon enshallah.. I am truly sorry for your loss

I am so sorry that there are animals roaming the face of earth amongst us in the form of human beings..

30 Responses to “Voluntary Manslaughter”

  1. grey Says:

    My deepest Condolences on their sad demise. and i pray that the Surviving will get out of the hospital soon
    Amen !

  2. Swair Says:

    I totally agree with everything you said. I’m still at a loss of words that even if our friend wanted to talk, I can’t help but just be a listening ear and a shoulder to cry on.

    The only comfort I can find in this situation is that she knows we’re here for her and that we’re all praying for her aunt (Allah yer7amha) and praying for her other aunt to come out of hospital safe, sound and healing..

    Thank you for the post, Chika, you read my mind and blogged it :*

  3. TAT Says:

    I’m sorry to hear that, I was named after my uncle who passed away the same way. He was hit by a drunk driver and I never got to meet the man I was named after. such is the way of the world

  4. ?. Says:

    Allah yer7amhum oo allah yashfeeha inshallah…I heard the news last night oo sara7a I’m so sad for them.

    My prayers are with the whole family..and thank God they have such great friends like you to stand by them. :)

  5. Ahmed Says:

    I cannot express my deep sadness to hear such news. Its true sadness, not just sympathy!
    I am upset because an old good friend of mines dad passed away last week too. He flew to Dubai for his work after spending a vacation, 1 day later they called him to inform him his dad passed away.

    May their souls rest in peace! AMEN!

  6. talisman Says:

    Splendid.May you face it.Death I mean.

  7. eshda3wa Says:

    allah yr7amhum inshallah ya rab

    its so so sad

    allah y3een the family o y9abrhum inshallah

  8. G Says:

    Damn, when will the darn ****ing guys here learn. Why cant they be responsible, is it to empress others, or is it to show someone that he can do anything like a sober person when he is under influence. I feel really sorry, but if there is something that is worse than killing these guys they deserve it.

    3atham allah ajerkoom.

  9. princess Says:

    allah yir7amhum, wiygawim the one in the hospital bil salama. this is sad but honey lets not throw stones at this drunk teenager just yet, this is an issue that needs to be solved min its root, why is that bum drunk and why is he driving, and why is drinking becoming so common, and madre think of the guilt he’ll have to live with for the rest of his life for taking away two lives

    madre this is just sad on all sides

  10. Cat Says:

    oh that’s so sad!

    3a’9am alla hajrekom w ajer ur friend w allah ye9aberhum enshallah.

    w allah yer7am ele tewafaw ya rab.

    and yer, we have so many retarded idiots out there in the streets lel asaf!

  11. Chirp Says:

    Allah yer7amha inshala .. oo allah i3een il 3aylah :s losing someone is VERY hard … and especially so suddenly and to something SO SO reckless.

    I hate ppl who are cocky enough to think that they could drink and drive .. they should take pictures of the person who was drinking and driving and put it on the front page of the newspaper!

  12. Chikapappi Says:

    Talisman.. enshallah me and you in one car, returning from our honeymoon soon yal ahbal

  13. Noushiii Says:

    Allah yer7amhom .. and whoever did this deserves to be punished.. Was it hit and run or they have the teenager?

  14. Chikapappi Says:

    Noushi, I think he was caught after he ran away…

  15. K.TheKuwaiti Says:

    ??? ??? ???? ???? ??????

    The only people benefiting from the sale of alcohol are the importers who sell them for 1000% profit. The best way to solve the issues with alcoholism is to legalize it; that way strict penalties can be issued and enforced. Drunk driving in addition to being disorderly in public should equate to a fine, jail time and public humiliation.

  16. Chikapappi Says:

    I think someone should address the “kbareya” behind those people..

  17. ?. Says:

    Talisman, what the fuck? For that disrespectful single word “Splendid” I’m going to stomp your face in if I ever get the chance to meet you. Respect is something your mom forgot to teach you obviously you little fuck. Let’s see how you feel about having some half-baked drunk/junkie plow down your own family right in front of you. Sick puppy.

  18. Maze Says:

    omg what a sad story…MAY THEIR SOULS REST IN PEACE…

    AND TALISMAN YOU BETTER SHUT THE FUCK UP AND STOP UR SILLY COMMENTS I GUESS YOUR PARENTS DIDNT TEACH YOU MANNERS AND RESPECT YOU MORON!!

  19. Amethyst Says:

    ;\

  20. Swair Says:

    Talisman, that was low, man :/

  21. Ahmed Says:

    Talisman, go sit on a fire blowing d!ldo!

    kthxtyvm!

  22. Chikapappi Says:

    wow! Talisman getting “love” !! Guess it’s time for a “I LOVE TALISMAN POST”

  23. Ahmed Says:

    Hell Yeah!
    Wanna do it yourself “write the post” or let me have the honor?

  24. Chikapappi Says:

    >:) Leave me the honor

  25. skinnybumblebee Says:

    Allah yer7amhoom inshalla,
    I am sure the guy will get what he deserves,
    it happened so many times before and the country doesn’t seem to do much about it.

    i smell a campaign

  26. ?. Says:

    Is he dead yet? I’m after that little milf bastard if it’s going to take me a lifetime.

  27. Ansam Says:

    la 7awla wala qowata ila bellah, alla yer7amhom! this is sad! I wonder what happened to that reckless driver!

  28. pearls Says:

    Chika I got so many insults from this guy, I ignore him. He has no life

  29. Dalal Says:

    “He hit their car killing two instantly and the third is still in the hospital not aware that her sister is dead”

    If you’re talking about who i think you’re talking about.. one person passed away… and 2 in the hospital..

    Alla yer7amech ya khalti o yghamed ro7ech il janna..

    RIP khalti.. We love you, and we wont forget you.. you’re in our hearts forever.

    ya rab eli khathach menna rots in jail. and HELL

  30. Desert-Roses Says:

    ***hugs

    You live your own reality and the others are guests

    we die in the end :)

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