Confrontation
I’ve neglected this blog… I stopped blogging my intimate personal feelings and this is causing a massive depressive manic disorder and taking my mental illness to a whole new place – that I’ve never known existed! You see, for a person with “communication” issues as “some” call me this is not good because I am not venting as I used too although others say I “bagarger – bargee” kteer which is totally false !
Anyhow.. Y’all know by now I am a goat “Capricorn” – those creatures are not necessarily smart yet very stubborn and consistent. When our minds are set on something khalas!!! Straight into the wall with those horns! This leads me straight into my post. I’ve been in a crappy mood lately because of an incident… one in many that verify the same fact: I AM A CHICKEN! I AM A WUSS! I AM NOT A MAN! :(
You see, there are people that we bump into during our lives which leave this trace, no matter how frail it is but it still effects you when you think of it… I have a problem!!
No matter how articulate – friendly – outgoing – witty I get sometimes, I find myself standing speechless – dumb – embarrassed in front of certain individuals that I certainly know need some butt kicking! It’s like I literally swallowed my tongue and I get all hot – as in boiling from anger- yet I never verbalize it! Eh!! There were a couple of cases where I know that those people are dumb asses and stooping down to their level isn’t gonna do much good so I try the “Hey am here to help” approach and that even doesn’t work – so to them, I am still the bitch they don’t like! Which pisses me off because yes, I do care what people say about me! Even if they are worthless trash!! Something happened to me at the gym the other day and I was “verbally abused” in front of a whole group of people and I suddenly switched to English and I giggled!!! WTF! That meant I was really pissed off and hysterical and I eventually cried! And when I went back home, I couldn’t sleep thinking of that man and how “womanly” he acted by allowing himself to talk to a woman in such a manner! Although everyone told me that I did good by not replying (they didn’t know I was helpless) and that the way he acted showed how uncivilized and immature he is but I am angry because I would like to confront this guy and ask for an apology!! No one NO ONE!! NO ONE is allowed to disrespect me! I will not allow anyone to step over me again! I will not allow anyone to be superior!! I will not tolerate crap from anyone!
I had my share of bull shit I don’t need that BEDUIN SHIT to address me in that manner! I can’t believe that people like that are allowed into a decent gym – I guess the only reason “Bu Turki” subscribed there is for the female presence!
NOW, I said it! I am happy! And next time something like that happens, I will count to 10 and confront this person with grace and maturity! Not stand like a dimwit changing colors of the spectrum!
P.S: No offense to anyone beduin out there, it’s just his nickname in my head!
June 19th, 2008 at
..take superglue with you to gym…pour it on his seat/bench/cycle and watch his knickers flyout :D
p.s. dont forget the camera
June 19th, 2008 at
I was thinking of gluing his feet to his mouth..
June 19th, 2008 at
He is not worth anything , man who abuses a woman is ain’t nothing .. dont waste your time on shit like that …
June 19th, 2008 at
hmm your reaction the “I giggled!!! WTF! That meant I was really pissed off and hysterical and I eventually cried!” i do that too , miyaneen walla
3al 3omom as a fellow capricorn, we are stuborn but dnt like the hassle so we nishtiri rasna and move on , at least i do
cheer up :*
June 19th, 2008 at
Well I have to admit that I was in your place a couple of times, and it wasn’t easy… but I guess we learn and move on.
June 19th, 2008 at
I’m glad you thought about it first before saying anything. it just shows how much you’ve got control over your emotions, that’s not an easy thing to do. But you’re right he needs to apologize for what he said, he needs to know how much you were offended
June 19th, 2008 at
ps. one time a male co-worker said sth rude. at first I didn’t realize it. when I did, I went straight to him and told him to apologize now. he did but that didn’t change how I felt, if I see him around I don’t say hi neither does he
June 19th, 2008 at
You rose above him… continue doing so, unless its way too much… report him
June 19th, 2008 at
Uhaaaaaaaaaaa!
June 19th, 2008 at
girl you needed that shout !
the world is full of bu turkis, even if you spit in his face, he won’t understand the insult, he might think it’s flattering..etwaj3eesh rasek, you are beating a dead horse
June 19th, 2008 at
CONFRONT!
June 19th, 2008 at
report him.. and next time ur in that kind of situation just say “ana ma ra7 anazil nafsy laih mustawak warid 3alaik”
June 19th, 2008 at
u’re unable to immediately reply to him because u’re not used to this mustawa, thats what happens unfortunately, and fortunately at the same time
June 19th, 2008 at
3ama b3aina ! lat7eren nafsich 3ala *** methla
June 19th, 2008 at
people tell me to take the high road I tell them I cant fly and btw isnt aries the goat?
June 19th, 2008 at
I don’t know what to say especially with all the responses i see in here. I use to be picky and sensitive but believe you me, i stopped doing that and try always not to face any “Kuwaiti” stuck up personality from both sexes and try to be very careful what to say or how to act.
In my business i deal with women “Kuwaitis“ all the time and when i try to say “No cannot do That” or “This will cost more” specially when we start the work and it’s not part of the deal, suddenly i see the other devil side of that person and the nice talking “person” becomes rude and snob, so welcome to the real world.
Ta Ta…
June 19th, 2008 at
I totally agree with Ansam!
June 20th, 2008 at
You eventually proved being the big man ! :**
June 20th, 2008 at
Ya mara yagolon “Al kalema ely test7y menha badha”. It is your war and a good preparation (plan, tools, and weapons) means a good victory and good sleep. Stab me politely with planned timing and words and you will kill my manhood if any remains.
Be brave “Life is a battle field”.
June 20th, 2008 at
LOL!!! I know for a fact that THAT Bu Turki doesn’t know English :p – ok, Thanks “Bu Turki” – I’d rather not waste my time planning for revenge and making it an issue troubling me.. let bygones be bygones and may he live with his manners shoved down his …. for ever :)
June 21st, 2008 at
it should be shoved up.. not down :P
June 23rd, 2008 at
yeahhhhhh Enigma…shove it up Chika!!!!! u need any help am here…:))