Characteristics 2!
Ok! Since I can’t post comments on your blog because you have to disable the thingie, I decided to wish the best of luck Tiger on your wife hunt and enshallah all will go as you plan - of course - with Allah’s will and blessings..
Your [ new post ] was something I wanted to write about but got kinda hesitant because you know how people would react to such a post, especially from a female - they’d think I lost it completely :$ but what the heck! Ama do it anyways!
Since people think I have unrealistic demands - fictional characteristics that I seek in my future partner, here goes nothing and let’s argue about them if you want:
1. Metdayyen - somewhat religious / not too strict as in an extremist because I don’t want to be suffocated. I personally think that such issues come gradually and no one can force you to do what you are not convinced with - in.
2. Well mannered, well that comes with being metdayyen - religious and by that I mean he has to respect both my family and myself because to me that comes before love
3. Ambitious - in everything he does in life and by that I won’t have to worry about my future, as well as our kids with him. Someone already settled in his job and going up the career ladder.
4. Generous: knows when to appreciate his partner whenever required, with or without an occasion and is considerate.
5. Fun loving: I am a pessimist so I need someone who’s the total opposite :/
6. Hyper active because I am one myself and I sometimes go wild
7. Loves food! BUT has to help me maintain a healthy diet - figure because I tend to lose myself when it comes to food and I am not only talking about junk food, I cook very well and this worries me because I sometimes think of meals I will be cooking my partner and I imagine me preparing two different dishes (one diet - other normal) and that’s not smart :$
8. Into sports and going the gym. I am addicted to steps and spinning!
9. Loves entertainment: which includes music, movies, games, gaming consoles! you name it!
10. INTERNET FRIENDLY: either runs his own blog, has FB, reads blogs.. whatever! as long as he knows what I am talking about when I sit in front of him ranting about some post ;)
11. Extremely romantic: roses, chocolate and the whole chebang!!
I won’t talk about trust and crap because I will be with the guy most of the time and he will be around my friends and family so yup..
Let’s move on to looks:
1. Now, to me this guy has to be tall, I am a shortie myself
2. Good looking, not handsome - not pretty but a face that I would feel happy staring at when I wake up in the morning and before sleeping at night
3. Kinda slim - fit
4. Either baldy or keeps his hair short, trimmed and clean
5. preferabbly darker skin tone than mine *thinking of the kids*
6. PERSONAL HYGIENE people! He has to be obsessed with his self - not OCD but very clean and well “preserved”
7. Casual kinda guy that wouldn’t jump into his denim pants and any shirt to go out yet when it comes to formal attire, he does it the best - ok, bottom line knows fashion and what’s in or out!
ok.. If you know me in person and think there are things I left out pls do add to my list ;)
July 6th, 2008 at
i did noooot read anything ;p the picture is amazing ;p i was just looking at it all the time ;p
July 6th, 2008 at
“Well mannered, well that comes with being metdayyen”
That’s the stupidest thing I heard today, so far, it’s just noon.
July 6th, 2008 at
not really, depends on the way you see it and how effected you are by those around you. One would think that those “religious” people are ok and decent but in fact they are atrocious and they give the rest of us Muslims a bad image but they are not alike; Some of them are highly educated, very open minded and understanding and as I said above, NOT STRICT. If people like that understand that religion is about tolerance and mercy, everything would be ok but then again, see where these people are coming out from, suppressed nations and uptight societies / families which make them the way they are..
July 6th, 2008 at
You are picky :P
Bas you know what? There are men like this, really. Just hard to find amongst the amazingly civilized Arab world :P You know how men are too busy doing USEFUL stuff and they don’t have much time.
ALLAH kariiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiim ya Chicka!
July 6th, 2008 at
Dudette you just described a guy i know!
*drummss*
July 6th, 2008 at
Why the baldy/short hair?
Think about your kids in future :)
July 6th, 2008 at
Hmm.. ok, I am discarding my future kids with this point bas I personally think baldies are hot
July 6th, 2008 at
I should make a list!
July 6th, 2008 at
Well, good luck finding him. :D
July 6th, 2008 at
lol i love baldies!!i dunno wat it is…but i love em:S
July 6th, 2008 at
Thats not unrealistic..kefhom whatever ppl say ignore them and i think many ppl have the things u listed… also MEN have unrealistic demands for their future wives o ma7ad galohom shay! But chika et9adgeen i see u marrying a quite guy madri laish…not hyper ya3ni… coz opposites attract :)
July 7th, 2008 at
honored that i made you post that, really, thanks.
Also thanks for wishing me luck and i wish you luck too, you can’t be pessimistic about such thing. good luck
ps about the thingie i just re enabled the comments again, but i’m getting too many spam comments, its weird.
July 7th, 2008 at
i think they *do* exist..*hums a tune and re-reads ur post..*
July 7th, 2008 at
u’ll need to compromise my dear, awful truth
July 7th, 2008 at
Or you can…(dare I say it?)….
….
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get pets! XD
July 7th, 2008 at
Hey, Remember me!
It seems nothing has changed, still looking for a husband ha
Anyway good luck finding what you’re looking for!
Here’s a wisdom to consider “most of the time people are looking for things while they’re right under their noses the whole time”.
July 7th, 2008 at
I agree with you all the way except for the baldie thing i prefere my men with hott full black sharukh khan hair! I cant run my hands through a baldies head ;D
July 7th, 2008 at
good luck finding him, sadly I don’t know anyone like that… well I do but he’s taken but i’ll keep a look out
July 7th, 2008 at
awww thank yoooooou :)
July 8th, 2008 at
If these are your demands then you will not find this man not even in the moon, because in real life with my repect to you, i don’t think you have these features. we always say i want my partner to be this and that because i am like that…are you? i like this quote:
When I was a young man I vowed never to marry until I found the ideal woman. Well, I found her but, alas, she was waiting for the ideal man.
Wish you all the best.
July 8th, 2008 at
Good luck Pappi !