Quick n’ simple question
Been busy with grandpa who’s visiting the country for a week and I’ve tried my best to get unnecessary negativity out of my system before resuming duty, which is like in a couple of hours ;/
One very obvious thing I’ve noticed these previous days is that girls – guys are now ALL pretty and they almost look “perfect” from every single aspect – speaking physically of course!
As an “idealistic – non realistic – extra romantic” person, I know for sure that there’s more to outer beauty and that’s so cliche now to say “Beauty comes from the inside” when we all know that both genders go for – are attracted to “beautiful” things but while I am trying to decipher my life and some situations I am going through, I found myself asking this question:
” What makes A person perfect to me?!”
I mentally did a list of pros and cons which is insensible and impractical so I wanted to ask you out there, what makes a person perfect to you? Or let me rephrase this to “In your words, describe your perfect someone”
February 8th, 2009 at
well, its an easy question to answer but practicing our answer in reality is not as easy, we all want almost the same thing in a partner, in general.
We all want a good listener, someone understanding and supportive.
Someone beautiful, outside and inside, good taste.
But in reality we are really picky, the human nature of judging works by pointing out the bad aspects and details of a person/object we are examining, we always prefer to look at the bad sides of a person instead of the good sides and thus we never really find a matching partner according to our standers.
February 8th, 2009 at
I feel that I haven’t answered the question so here we go:
Realistically, the perfect someone can be anyone, sounds weird to say but we all set the bar very high yet end up with being satisfied with a partner that is very random and totally lower than our aim, the fact that this person does not match our special someone description yet you are more than happy and satisfied being together keeps the relation going.
It all really depends on the situation, emotional state, first impression etc… when these factors are right the partners get each others attention and after that they become attracted depending on the personality and looks quality matches.
It sounds too philosophical but I think that you want a deep detailed answer rather then a ‘blond, thin, tall, cute, funny partner’ answer.
February 8th, 2009 at
To me?
a realistic down to earth person who is not an ego maniac. Who doesnt think of themselves as god’s gift to this earth and above all other human beings. Who are honest and do not lie. Not pretentious. Loyal and would not stab you in the back when u r not looking. Devoted. Funny. Independent. Spontaneous and/or Adventurous. Oh and does’nt stare :D
February 8th, 2009 at
There is no ‘perfect person’ only perfection is Allah.
to me, I’m attractive to girls’ opinion and thoughts, I like girls similar idealistic like mine, rather than some pretty barbie girl with no brains whatsoever.
February 8th, 2009 at
First thing that came to my mind was ‘nobody’s perfect only God is ” … what makes a person perfect? hmm ! never have come accross one, will let you know when i find one
February 8th, 2009 at
hmmmmm afaker w arja3 lech
February 8th, 2009 at
someone who’s everything i need, not necessarily everything i want.
February 8th, 2009 at
That is so difficult to answer, have you figured it out yet?
February 8th, 2009 at
omg readin this made me feel like it was me saying this..
i said the EXACT same thing to my friend the other day…i was walking down the mall and looking around thinking..”everyones pretty”..seriously, nobody (nearly) looks ugly..everyone can look attractive now, yet many men still go for looks?there’s always gonna be someone prettier physically..but wat it is in the end is how u click and connect with the person ur with..
i hope men think this way cuz if not, weve got a problem:)
February 8th, 2009 at
Whats make a person (female) perfect is a perfect well rounded firm pink ass.The rest is just minor details.
February 9th, 2009 at
I found perfect. It knew it was perfect. Therefore making perfect quite horrible!
I don’t want perfect, just compatible.
February 10th, 2009 at
Vixen. You could not have said it better. Compatible it is.
February 11th, 2009 at
People who are oblivious to their own perfection are quite endearing.