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I can’t believe I have been away that long! All the days are similar now and as I told a friend over mail – I need inspiration to blog people! Inspire me!

Getting to know your real nemesis is truly a hard thing now especially with everyone being all nice & sweet in the beginning then half way through, this person decides to pull a fast one on you - “Testing – feeling comfortable enough to do so – Give & take”, are some of the things some individuals would tell you to validate their actions and you as an idiot sometimes buy it bas if you’ve been through many of those situations, you’d learn how to ignore right!?3ady ya3ny, most of us lost a coupla (more maybe) friends in the process but you have to know that this is for your benefit minus all the drama it causes of course… As a female and based on my observation I’ve come to the conclusion that my only true fierce nemesis is another smart ass female who thinks she can play me! Yes, the “female vs. female” wars are so hostile and I am really shocked to hear what some girls would do to each other or listen to the crap they say behind each others backs.

We bully men saying that they are the source of all evil and we blame those poor creatures when we all know ladies that we (not all of us of course) do not get along well together no matter how we try. It  surprises me how men keep their childhood buddies or study mates as friends for ever and we fail at that! Why is that I wonder!?

In a group of +5 females, trust me there is bound to be gossip – backstabbing – envy – hate and that’s what you don’t see! Some girls decide to attack on the spot and they would throw a couple of words at you ya3ny they’re hinting it while you stand their helplessly trying to avoid biting your tongue off  and holding up your dignity..

I am of course generalization so if you are one of my female friends, pls do not send me an sms wondering what went wrong! You see, I was at Zain today to register for an exhibition and I saw one the girls that went to university with me and after all the hugging and the kissing comes to the “So, Who do you see from old classmates” !? I don’t see any of my college friends because life drifts us away and everyone has enough on his – her mind to search for contacts or go out n stuff sara7a! I mean, I do bump into some online or in a mall or restaurant but that’s about it because even if you exchange numbers I am 100% sure they wont call back – most of them are now married and have their own family to take care of you know so I can’t blame them as for the rest, which are scum bags fa I chose to stay away – sometimes observe silently just for the sake of trying to understand  their sick minds.

So the girl started talking about how she fought with flana o the other flana meanwhile I am thinking: “Wow! Thank God I had no issues with those females back then!” I mean, she’s still nice to me :$ What bothered me is how a close group of girls suddenly separate over gossip – rumor spreading and jealousy?!

Why don’t women try to help each other in a positive and constructive manner? Why don’t they level up with each other and avoid unnecessary “kalam zayed” o be honest in a nice way at least just to ensure that “no matter what you go through girl, I’m here for you” attitude?! I believe in harmony, I believe in giving chances, I believe in women but women now disappoint me..

NOT ALL OF YOU – My close circle of friendat, I do not have to name each and every single one just to prove how much I love you :p

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